Labels are what others may put on us to identify us which isn't always bad, just when they are used to mock and insult another person. But surely I appreciate words like gay, straight or bisexual as they clearly do define to what extent my preferences or others may want me to know about themselves. What I don't think is healthy is to ignore these definitions of our sexuality as it makes them more aloof to others and allows them to be used offensively against us if we give them that power? If your a man or a woman who appreciate the exclusivity of your same sex you're gay, the opposite sex you're straight and as it's said, "swing either way" given the right type you're bisexual and nothing is inherently wrong with those labels! Just the asshole to stupid or naive that has to use them as a club to hurt others.................

 

Well, you are not the only person who thinks the same way you do. And I'm interested in talking to you. Thanks

 

There is nothing inherently wrong with labels. Its how we classify ourselves.

 

Humans have a natural tendency to want to organize things group them by similarities. We categorize movies, animals, celestial bodies everything down to the smallest particles. It helps us understand and wrap our heads around ideas. And we really desperately want our categories to work so whenever a square peg doesn’t quite fit in the round hole we create new categories. We label people by their sexuality so that we can understand the world around us figure out how everything fits together.

 

Fuck, I completely forgot to tack on a notation that unfortunately some labels can get coopted and abused and used to harm or supress a group which is, for all those bottom feeders that aren’t aware, an apalling act.

 

Label me how you want. I love pussy and sucking cock too much to give a fuck.

 

And there we have an interesting point illustrated by fleming. It is rare that the label is for the benefit of square peg nor round hole but for the toddler desperately trying to figure out how to get things to fit

 

of the 200+ cocks I've sucked, I would say less than 10% are honest with their partners.... My first bj he was happily married.

 

May I inquire, do you fuck ass? I have been the same way my entire life... label me whatever???

 

No I'm not into anything anal

 

@halodren nailed what I was going to say. Humans try to put everything in neat little categories, but the natural world doesn't always fit. I'm a little into birding, and bird species can be the same way. Sure, a duck and a cardinal are totally different; but a black capped chickadee vs a carolina chickadee? A couple different colored feathers and they call it something completely different. It gets muddy. I see sexual labels as the same thing.

Labels are handy for conversation. They keep things brief. "I'm bi" is shorter than listing every sex partner you've ever had trying to detail your precise sexual preferences. But when you view them as some kind of rule or law instead of just words, that's when it becomes problematic. "I'm straight" describes what you like to do, not what you're allowed to do. And then you get guys in the middle of an existential crisis signing up for accounts here and posting "I dreamed about sucking cock last night, what does that make me??"

 

Asshole is the only label I wear, and I wear it well. It doesn't identify my sexuality, it identifies me

 

I have no idea how to use this site so I don't know how to directly message. Pretty

I have no idea how to directly message I have no idea how to directly message somebody, I don't really use this site, I doubt it though, she is trashy and probably had multiple guys at once, but the fact she did it is just low.... and he actually didn't start talking badly about me or treating me badly until she started encouraging him to, I actually have recordings and I've seen proof

 

I totally believe that!!!!!