I'm a married man and want to stay that way but I am looking for a woman to be my secret fuck buddy. I am looking for ideas as to how to make it happen!

 

I think there are a few questions you need to ask yourself first. 1/ Why do I feel the need to cheat on my partner. 2/ What happens if she finds out. 3/ Would I leave my partner for the other woman if it got that intense.
The idea of cheating is great in the mind but when it goes wrong some one always gets hurt

 

I agree - but no-one ever plans for it to go wrong! I have answers to your questions for anyone who was interested in pursuing the idea!

 

Don’t cheat or lie
Grow a pair of balls and be honest with her

If she wants monogamy and you don’t then move on divorce or separate and fuck everyone you want

If she’s ok with a more open relationship great you get what your looking for AND you get to keep you safe stable marriage​

 

You posted this in GD. People don’t like to chat about sex here and the judgement can be brutal too. Just a heads up. Lol Everyone is basically perfect here.

 

Thanks! I think I expected a more open minded approach as I am sure no relationship is perfect and we all need our different props from time to time!

 

...and still, no once answered his question

 

One of my first fwb was my wife's brothers' wife. I just asked her if she would be angry if I made a pass at her. Went from that to fucking and sucking every chance we got.

 

Maybe noone has achieved this position or if they have, they are keeping it a secret to themselves!

 

That sounds like it was risky - but nice to keep it in the family. It sound sliek you have managed it a few times - any tips?

 

Really encourage you to sit down and talk with your wife and tell her about your desires.

worst case scenario is a fair and even divorce, and you can then go live put your desires without causing too much pain

best case scenario is she has her own desires, you talk about them, work out something, and your marriage becomes stronger.

you cheat on her, then your sex life will be filled with guilt and if she finds out, you’re stuck paying alimony and your life just overall sucks.

I’m in a similar scenario. Except I’m going to have to talk to my wife about same sex hook ups.

 

It sounds so easy to say lets talk about it - but we have talked about it but not in as open a way as i would like.

 

Easy, pay for it...Otherwise be careful there's no misunderstanding. There's a chance if you find a fuck buddy, one day she's going to want more of a relationship than you are willing to offer....Paying a lady for sex and for her to leave without drama is the safest.

 

Unless she's g o nna be involved in fucking threescome with you an d fu k buddy don't say anything about it.and fuck all these comments putting you down.somehow you gotta have your sticky juicedick from fucking fuck buddy and have the wife suck your cock without knowing.looking down to her Lickung up fuckbuddy puusy ass juices. Mmm<<< that just gave me a boner

 

Fore I asked, I tol her that I wudn't be upset with what ever she said. I'm not sure this would work with any gal.

 

Wrap it in pretty paper and put a bow on it. Cheating is cheating no matter how you present it.

 

Thanks for engaging with the topic. I understand your perspective and respect your opinion. I believe I have answers to many if the questions you raise but not prepared to share on an open forum.

 

Am un prieten cu care fac sex, darI have a friend with whom I have sex but not always, often time does not allow us