In fact, you are immature and judgmental. I suspect that, with time, you'll learn how very destructive jealousy is rather than embracing it.

If your GF loved you, then you wouldn't need to beat other men up to keep them away from her, now would you?

I am at a loss for how you come to the conclusion that jealousy and insecurity make you more of a man, but, then again, maybe it is all explained by the fact that you are judgmental and immature.

In my experience, relationships are not very successful when they are measured by what you "let" your partner do. If you can't "let" other men touch her, that must mean that is exactly what she wants. The difference is, your GF will just cheat on you behind your back.

I don't mean to be snide, but your little "dominance is love" pretext is just another kink and nothing more. It is just as easy to look at your vision of what love is and say "dam u r sick...how messed up are u?" Enjoy your kink, but leave mine the hell alone.

 

Not jealous

I'd love to share my woman with another guy and we've talked about it but never done anything like that. She'd never go with an FFM but MFM is OK in her mind. She's the jealous type I guess, damn it! LOL
Our problem is how to approach someone with the idea of a threesome without feeling embarrassed if they weren't into something like that? I'd love to watch and participate in DP and just giving her pleasure with multiple hands and cocks etc.....
She knows of my past and is OK with it. It took me a long time to admit it to her.....
I'm not cuckold, but I was a horny kid and had sex early on in my life.
At first is was with the 'same sex' and found it to be lots of fun but I worried that if word got out I'd be thought of as a 'fag' and in the 60's that wasn't good.
So I suppose that I'm 'bi' although I haven't had 'same sex' in decades. I've always preferred females but in the early days they weren't available as guys were so that's the way I went.
Being 'naughty' was more fun for me than anybody else I guess but I think that many have a secret desire to be as 'naughty' as I was.
A few of us played and explored sex and I didn't mind being in a multiple partner situation back then.
To me, sex was sex, and it always was fun and felt really good and I didn't feel guilty but would sure feel embarrassed if I was found out.

 

Never done it and I know that I probably never will, but do like the idea.. I would love to watch her with another man, the look on her face when he pushes his cock inside her, her body language face moans etc as she orgasms

 

lol okay u called me judgmental ... u do not have to agree with me since u think i am wrong ... now it is true that every1 is having their thing ... but that does not mean that everything is right ... some ppl get joy or raping women or abuse children .. i do not think that coz they just see it as fun i should not judge those ppl and i just leave them be and having fun ... now u might love ur girl ... and u just trying to make sure she has all her fantasize fulfilled and that she is happy ... well u paying too much ... u let other ppl have what should only be urs and urs only. my post does not change anything ... do whatever u feel like to .. but i still think that this is just sooo wrong and u need to man up ... and as i said in the top of my post sorry to offend any1

 

tbh if this post were not replaying on my post i would not read it coz it is in black and so hard to see the words so please try use other color

the fact that u went straight about it and said what u think of me makes me respect u .. now to the point ... ya i am a jealous guy ... and aint nothing wrong about being afraid to lose the one u love .. tho this is not my main reson to refuse the idea ... my main reason is simply this guy is having something that is soooooo special and should just be between the 2 of us ... if my GF loved me she will accept the fact she aint gonna have sex with other man ...and then i wont need to beat any1 ... making no1 touch ur girl as long as she is ur girl <--- that what makes u a man not being jealous ... so u just want her to come to me and say i'll have sex with this guy and i should have nothing to do about it .. hell no ... i wont let her .. and if she went it to any1 then she is not my girl i'll dump her ... in relationships u need to tell ur partner what u cant accept and give them a choice to make ... about the cheat thing .. so u saying to avoid cheating on u let her fuck the guy by ur knowledge? lol r u kidding? beside if she cheats on me then obviously she does care about her pussy more than my heart and i don't need that ... lol no worries no offense taken ... i look at what should be normal and then say dam u r sick ... and if u r telling me that some1 else using my girl/wife as sex object is normal ... then u r sick

again sorry to offend u but this is just something i cant bear

 

Well this is a touchy subject for many people, and can be looked at from different angles.. But it all depends on the people in participation to the idea.. Everyone thinks differently and has different fantasies which is true.. But it shouldn't be like a debate.. Like hey my friend said he wants to have sex with you, What do you think hunny you down??.. Now see if you actually approached her and talked about this seriously.. And said ok well i know want this fantasy, but i need to know before hand it won't change anythig between us.. Cause there has to be rules and trust in both people to go to that point and say, I want my wife/gf to get it from another man.. I personally am not saying i would consent to it or be up for it.. But i believe if your girl really loves you and truly has love in her heart for you, Than she shouldn't have to feel like she needs another man to make her happy.. Cause it's a doubled edged blade.. And i know there are women out there.. Who would freak if there man wanted to tap another woman in front of them.. How would that make the women feel ?

 

Truly whatever language "u r" using is far more difficult to read than the black text.

I personally have an issue with the way you describe relationships. Monogamy is fine if that is what you prefer. (In my experience many people talk about monogamy, but few actually practice it.) However, your ideas seem to boil down to some sort of odd ownership, and that is not at all normal. I have met very few women interested in being treated like chattel property in the name of "protection." Also, in my experience, nothing at all good comes from jealousy. I suspect you will learn that lesson the hard way eventually. However, those are all your choices and between you and "ur" girl.

I really don't care what choices you make- live your life, but don't insult mine. Agreeing that my wife can make her own choices is not "sick"- it has helped us maintain a strong and loving relationship and a very satisfying sex life. Everything we do is between consenting adults. If that is "sick" to you then I really don't care. If you don't like it, don't do it, that is no reason to insult other people's choices.

 

No way Jose, she's mine and I'm not sharing!

Of course if she wants to get it on with another lady I would be quite happy to watch or preferably join in.

I'm guessing this is a pretty stereotypical male response to this question.

 

haven't had that chance yet, but would love to watch her sucking and fucking another guy

 

Truly whatever language "u r" using is far more difficult to read than the black text.

*i took ur points and answered them in order ... sorry if u did not notice that ... anywho english is not my main so...

I personally have an issue with the way you describe relationships. Monogamy is fine if that is what you prefer. (In my experience many people talk about monogamy, but few actually practice it.) However

*lol it is simple actually when u marry some1 ---> u gotta be in love with her ----> when i am in love with her -----> why would i ever think about sex with other ppl


, your ideas seem to boil down to some sort of odd ownership, and that is not at all normal. I have met very few women interested in being treated like chattel property in the name of "protection." Also, in my experience, nothing at all good comes from jealousy. I suspect you will learn that lesson the hard way eventually. However, those are all your choices and between you and "ur" girl.

*hum if these are my choices and just between me and my girl why did u brought it up? .... u see now u saying just coz i am asking my wife/gf to give up on her fantasize about having sex with another man that means i control her ... okay wow r u kidding? i thought u r sick but dude this is really ducked up ... last i heard this is how committed relationships are and the swingers - 3some and all the other stuff ppl just used them to spice thing ... IT IS NOT HER RIGHT TO SLEEP WITH SOME1 ELSE .... infact it is my damn right to ask her not to lol


I really don't care what choices you make- live your life, but don't insult mine. Agreeing that my wife can make her own choices is not "sick"- it has helped us maintain a strong and loving relationship and a very satisfying sex life.

*lols glad i red ur post so early in the morning i needed that laugh , i think i have a tear or two ... lol i am sorry but maintin a stron and loving relatioship !!! seriously? ... i mean so to break u the news my man but ur wife is having sex with other ppl

Everything we do is between consenting adults. If that is "sick" to you then I really don't care. If you don't like it, don't do it, that is no reason to insult other people's choices

*insult ppl is not in my interests ... what i am doing here is telling u who u r ... ppl will always hate the truth but that does not mean it is not right

cheaters <---- mean son of bitches

ppl who ldo incest <---- ppl fucked up so bad that they wont mind fucking mother father son daughter brother or sister

u bro <---- sick and u know why


now those ppl up there will feel offended well it is their fuckin problem .. it is just like telling some guy who love to suck dicks that he is bi or gay and he feels offended and scream i am STRAIGHT ... now we both know i aint gonna change anything with my words with u ... and ur wife will still fuck with other ppl ... but u see this forum is all about discussions and saying ur opinion ... and that is what i do


hopefully the way i used to replay at ur post improved my english

 

I don't like to share..

 

RedHater- A belief in monogomy is not the measure of love.

I have known lots and lots of couples who share, and I have found them to be incredibly caring, loving couples.

I have known lots of couples who, like you, will not share, and I have certainly known a lot of those relationships to be abusive, unloving, and dishonest. You have already indicated your willingness to resort to violence over your irrational jealousy, so don't lecture others.

So you have a singular, limited, and jingoistic understanding of what you find acceptable, as well as the arrogant belief that you can be the judge of what is normal and what is "sick." That does not make you right, it makes you an ASSHOLE.

If the only thing that your tiny brain comprehends is the missionary position with a woman that you think you own, why on earth are you even visiting this site? At first I agreed that you were immature and judgmental, now I see that you are just an arrogant little man trying to compensate for your apparent shortcomings by judging others who have, clearly, far better sex lives than you will ever even get to imagine.

I do not ask or expect others to share my kink. However, if you are so narrow-minded that you cannot allow others their kink, and feel the need to call others "sick," that shows the sort of lack of imagination that makes for a long, sexless life.

The "truth" is that you know absolutely nothing at all about how other people live their lives, and certainly don't have the right to judge other people's love.

Assholes who feel the need to come on and tell others how they should live their life = The most sick of all.

I am not your "bro," I did not ask to fuck "yur" gril, and would not have to worry about you fucking mine since she'd find you repugnant. If you want to "call us out" for the choices that we make in our bedroom and pretened that is "truth" then you are simply wrong. Aside from a few assholes like you, this forum is not about judging others.

Why don't you go find some forum on religion where you can have lots of soulmates who love to sit around calling other people "sick?"

 

well put EDWARDG, well put indeed!!! I could not think of a more intelligent well thought and coherent response to something so obviously written by a poorly educated, judgemental ass! Thank you for saying so well what we were all thinking.

 

id defently be open to the idea of my wife with another man cause after all is said and done I know my wife would be staying home with me.
That and I always find that you need to keep the sex in a relationship fiery and passionate and nothing says passion after giving ur wife the fuck of her life after seeing another man plow her for hours... just saying

 

The poorly educated judgemental ass is, most probably, a normal person.

If you consider as being normal to have your wife/girl friend fucked by others, than, sorry, but either you are impotent, either a freak!

What the heck are you trying?!?
Label us, the normal people as being abnormal?

 

So, you like to see your wife being satisfied by another guy...

In Romania we just call them sluts and we divorce them! (Only in case we've been so STUPID to get married to them in the first time!)...

 

its not that she is a slut its the fact that we as a couple get a bf so its mainly like a 3 some but with me watching as he fucks her.

but in ur country they have thier own values and morals but here in the states ours are different, but thank you for our input.

 

It so happens that I do have friends in the USA and... they don't have the values you describe!...

Also, not too long ago, a guy named Bill Clinton, who so happened, at that moment, to be your president, has had a huge problem just because he has taken the liberty to ejaculate on the skirt of a fucking stupid cunt named Monica Lewinsky...

So, sorry, but... don't try to imagine that I am such a gullible person!

NOTE: If here, in Romania, a president would have done the same thing, be sure that the only outraged person, if any, would have been his wife and family...

 

Ovid seriously let it go ... it is impossible to argue with such mentality

*advise from a guy who tired :excited:*

 

everyone is allowed to thier own beliefs and values, and as for bill clinton he cheated on his wife with a intern...... we are talking about the two adults aka me and my girl both agreeing to her bringing home another guy for her to play with and me as well.....

as for my state comment I was stating that most people in the states would be ok with 3 somes as in look at craiglist and other dating sites its all over the net that partners sharing each other is ok.