OK, so this might not apply to every man, but it certainly applies to me. See, I am a pretty normal guy. I work hard and have a lot of responsibility, am well-educated, and grew up in a family where my dad was the provider. My upbringing and societal pressure have burdened me with the expectation to be in control, be responsible, and fix the things that need fixing. The pressure is constant and although I deal with it 99.5% of the time, sometimes I just need a break from it.


And that break for me, and for lots of men, is to give up control. Even if just for a little while.


To NOT be responsible… to NOT be in control… is like a vacation on a tropical island: refreshing, invigorating, insanely pleasurable, and keeps me in balance. It is just something I NEED from time to time.


And, believe it or not, being submissive makes me feel more like a man. It’s just part of me.


I used to have an outlet for my submissive side – a woman that I met through an online personal ad. She was my online Goddess (that’s how she liked to be addressed) and we had an online-only relationship that was mutually beneficial. She enjoyed controlling me and assigning me tasks, which I would have to perform and take pictures doing; and I loved giving up control and doing these tasks, if only because she asked me to.


Thinking about and planning these tasks was a delicious pleasure for me, as was performing them, and for her, seeing the pics of me degrading myself and being her online pet, would arouse her and fulfil a need of hers to be dominant.


Her life changed and that has left me without an outlet. I miss being someone’s toy to be played with. I miss the pleasure of planning an elaborate task and the absolute thrill of standing there naked, waiting for the camera’s timer to click and take a pic of me being a slut. I miss reading about how powerful she felt looking at my pics and masturbating to them under the soft glow of her laptop when her house was quiet.


I miss being a slut.


The reason I am posting this here is that I am hoping that someone reads it and thinks to herself, “Hmmm, that sounds interesting and I think I might enjoy that.” If that is you, please send me a message and we can start a conversation.

 

I can't believe there isn't a single woman here that isn't at least curious...

 

Your analysis is 100% spot on. I'm convinced there are no real woman on this forum. Guys playing make believe and cam models trying to sell you something.

 

I am still looking for a sexually curious woman...wondering if she could be dominant

 

I would be interested, but I would want my hudband to be involved. Just to watch. I would never do anything behind his back. I am not gery good at dirty talk in person, mood has to be right and not put on the spot. I can come up with some wild shit!

 

Posting during the day - hoping to find a woman curious about dominating a man

 

Glad I could help!

 

still looking for that elusive online friend

 

Yes, still looking.