It would depend on who is asking. I learned the hard way that what ever you tell the person, true or not, [and I made up some very tall tails} it will probably get thrown back in your face at a time of stress, argument, or to justify the other persons actions.
I no longer have much to say on the subject, and I generally do not ask.

 

my sugarbook.live guy always asking, he says need to confirm before date out. Then i think if my past is so important?

 

cannot understand why some people still very care on the past? Past cannot change anything but future will

 

when older like 60 plus perhaps you will start recall

 

if your partner consistently ask until you get interrupted?

 

Never been asked about past. But would start off with PG13 version of it at first I think

 

That can make some feel it's a competition. Who is better at what. And why.

 

No. That's a typical question.

 

It's not at all the first thing that is of interest to me.
Eventually if I plan to keep seeing the person it is a good way to learn about their character and bout likes or dislikes.

 

That is not very high on my priority of questions asking, I don't mind a partner asking me that question it is reasonable but I feel if that feel they have to ask they feel that they need to compete somehow, I would not want anyone to feel like that just to be with me.

 

Growing up experiencing a more swing lifestyle most potential partners would not be pleased to know how many have been before. One girl complained you experienced so much we wont have any " first times" together. lol

 

My wife and I had been married twice before and we were friends and neighbors for ten years before we married. The first time she sucked my cock I told her she was a fantastic cocksucker. She told me she had alot experience and laughed. " Tell me all about it in detail, please." I replied. She told me about the first time her and her best friend sucked a group of neighborhood boys when she was JUST a teen. As she went into detail my cock was rock hard and dripping precum, so she knew how much it turned me on. We agreed that nothing we told each other would interfere with our relationship.

 

I'm a fairly open book, but I don't think I'd like to divulge too much too fast. Not that I'm ashamed or anything, I just don't think it's necessarily healthy to lay out your past relationships to a new person before you have a chance to get to know each other. People change over time, and I wouldn't want to be judged for actions or mistakes in a relationship from 10 years prior.

 

Goodness no. I couldn't possibly be truthful, open and honest about
past relationships, not that I have had so many, or that I've done
anything I'm ashamed about, but it would definitely impact how they
see me.

With my bf and myself, we decided it was best for us to keep our pasts
to ourselves. I would never want to know about his past girlfriends.
I know myself and a I'm way too competitive/jealous/insecure/overthinking
kind of girl, so not knowing nor wanting to know is better.

Plus, shouldn't everyone have some secret side, that's just for themselves?

 

I have a past so it's only natural it's spoke about. Those who ignore the last are doomed to repeat it and all that.

 

What's in the past is in the past. I've slept around in my youth but mainly in a group of friends. I'm happily married and we both know about each others sexual history. I wouldn't care if she had slept with several hundred guys.

 

I have asked about a past to give me insight into their likes and dislikes. It allows me from making a jerk of myself and likewise may help my being a better sexual partner.

 

She would be bored!

 

I am not ashamed of my sex life

 

There was a time I would have avoided the topic. But a FWB asked and I was an open book. Turned out she started dating her husband at 16 and was the only guy she fucked until we started our friendship when she was 40. She was just very curious I guess