So my wife and I are getting older but still enjoy an active sex life. My question is for the older couples out there. Tell me how you keep things fresh and interesting. What sorts of things do you do to get your motor running? Do you use toys or watch porn?
Please refrain from responding to this post if you are not at least 50 years old. Thanks for reading.

 

We are in our 60s
We do much of what you listed it works for us

 

We are in our 60’s. Share stories and pictures… long, extended foreplay. Fucking is less the goal, pleasure of multiple varieties is

 

For years we've added porn,toys, and became swingers and brought others into our sex life

 

L9ve to help but since wife hit menopause, shit has shut down in my house

 

I've been married 28 years and we are having the best sex of our lives rn. We have porn and toys, but I'm a narratophile who loves dirty talk. I just discovered that word last week and it has literally changed my life. You just need to analyze and communicate what turns you and your partner the most. I had to overcome tons of ingrained shame to finally confess my fantasies, but it was so freakin' worth it!

 

My wife is going through the change and it is just making her freakier. You should try to have a compassionate open-minded conversation about her needs.

 

Ya I've been written off for being too old. I made her squirt with my hands then tongue then thick cock. She offered her asshole and I used her cum as lube. She squirted again. Getting old means I take my time to make her cum. Then daddy gets his.

 

Recently lost my husband but until his short illness, no problems at all. Toys, hardcore porn, and rampant cock-hunger kept us going!

I'm 72, he was 66.

 

We have been married for 53 years. I am 73, she's a few years younger (younger! that's hilarious). We have sex a good 5 or more days/week. How do we keep things fresh and interesting? Fresh and interesting is not possible. Good, pleasurable, wanted, and satisfying is not only possible, it is reality. Sex is what it has always been - the base, the bedrock, of our relationship. It has given us children, a family. Sex has given us orgasmic pleasure on a daily basis. A pleasure beyond any other. Long may we fuck!

 

Been trying that for 10 yrs my friends. Some are just luckier than others... Believe me, its not from the lack of trying...

 

PLus she doesnt have any needs, doesnt want any needs and doesnt want to help me with mine. I wished my desires had died with hers....

 

Aging...it finally caught up to me...LOL. I'm 77 now and up till last year and the HEAT wave/drought, I was able to go at it mostly all day. In August of last year, I helped my bro-n-law put in 2200' of new 2" water line up at the farm and the heat really got to me. This summer, I noticed that I just don't/can't go at it like I used to...and it's frustrating.
Still ride my crotch rocket Ducati Superbike too but that is taking a toll on my shoulders and neck so been thinking of selling it and staying with a Ducati Sport/Tourer and my olde Norton Commando only...but the power in the Superbike is soooo SINsational...LOL.

 

In kind of a bad place right now. I'm 64, wife is 71. Married 32 years. After she went through the change it became painful for her to have intercourse. We got by a few years with hormone pills, creams, etc. But now she is just dried up and kind of shrunk up I think. No matter the amount of lube, it's still to painful for her. Been a few years now without any vaginal intercourse, she wont do anal, and she has zero interest in sex of any kind. She says stuff like, "all I gotta do is ask" and she'll have sex. But there's really no interest on her part when we do try, I feel bad "asking" cause I know she could care less, and I kinda feel like I'm "using" her for my gratification. When we do attempt, all I get is put it between her legs with some lube. Sometimes is works, but is mostly just frustrating, being that close to her pussy and ass and not being able to fuck them. 95% of the time I'm just left to look at porn and jack off. Even that is rare because we are both retired and she's home all the time, and there's just no way to jerk off when she's home.
I'm extremely frustrated, but I will not cheat on her.

 

We are 76 and 73. We have sex 3-4 times a week. It takes 10 minutes or so. We get to business right away and she cums and squirts a few times then rubs my balls and ass until I cum in her. We just like to get off. Not interested in taking much time. We use Albolene for lube. I feel very content. She loves being stuffed. Not into much other things. Works for us. Just happy we still do it. And often.