Looking to hear from men who have had prostrate surgery and how it has affected their sex life. Had a close friend who has now withdrawn from letting me suck him. Was wondering if other men have lost interest after surgery also? Just trying to understand if it is something that can happen after going through the procedure. Thank You.

 

My father told me after he had his shaved, it doesn’t work half the time and the little blue pill doesn’t help it either so he said don’t do it unless I absolutely have too.

 

Thanks for the info.

 

Had prostate removed because of cancer. I cannot get an erection nor can i cum. I can orgasm. Still play with guys. Lots of oral and body contact. Takes awahile doing this before ki orgasm. The guys enjoy the extended play time plus im already to start again

 

Thank you for your reply.

 

Have a friend who had his removed on account of cancer. He lost a small bit of length when flaccid. Takes a Cialis pill every other day. Has no problem with erections. Just has dry orgasms though. I can truly attest to this.

 

Thanks for the input. It is truly appreciated.

 

Bad situaltion, They should tell before the surgery how bad it will be. Unless you have advanced cancer I would not get it again. There are al lot of other options.

After 3 years I had lost about 1 1/2 in length and 1/2 in gurth. Sad. Also hardly ever get semi hard. Can never get full release or relief from sex . Really bad for a sex life.

I am open to any advice that I can get for better sex lift, have tried both blue and gold pills. not luck.

They have new surgery technic for BHP, they use angioplasti like for heart surgery, it is out patient and no ill side effects, but not for cancer.

 

Mine was cancer. Gave me two months if I did nothing. Second opinion same result. Better to be alive and work with what’s left.

 

I had radiation treatment for prostate cancer. During and six months after I had no sexual desire. Then slowly the urges came back. Once in a blue moon I can get hard enough for penitration, but most times just semi hard. I no longer have nice cum shots, but instead little squirts of clear liquid. I now still get horny and enjoy sex with both men and women, though mostly to service them and have them use my ass and mouth. I'm fine with all this as I am cancer free and that is the most important thing. The little blue pill doesn't help either.

 

Controversial opinion here, but I think I would rather be dead than unable to get it up. Sex is a huge part of my life and I don't think I would want to live without it. Nor do I want to be someone's beta slave.
Nah. If I'm ever diagnosed, I think I will take my chances, or explore other options.
Not a hard no, but definitely a wishy washy no, for now,on the surgery