When you were a young guy having sex it's all about coming and you tend to be a bit selfish. But now that I am older I am finding that I receive just as much pleasure from giving as I do from getting, at times giving is even more pleasurable to me. It just seems like I can really just take my time now and enjoy a woman just for the sake of enjoying a woman.

 

Terrific

 

Agreed

 

As it should be.

 

Agreed , her pleasure is important then mine.

 

I learned from a very young age how important it is for both parties to have as much pleasure as possible....
Being groomed did that for me.

 

Amazing how much we can learn as we age.

 

I like for wife to cum every time we make love.....

 

I think that’s gets me off more than cumming myself

 

You need to read my prife to understand why I say this, but after having been married, went through the early age stupidity, now I really know what I want, or better stated, need.

 

I was taught it is more important to focus on your partners pleasure rather than your own

 

Even when I was young me and my best friends would focus I'm making sure each other or sexually satisfied and that both of our dicks received orgasms

 

I find its better to concentrate on giving, and then you "get" what you want.

 

I don’t think it’s about being selfish when you’re younger. It’s about lack of experience and self control.
Every young guy I’ve ever been with, including when I was young myself, was convinced he was going to rock my world over the course of an hour long fuck-a-thon.
Some of them finished in their pants at the prospect of getting their willy wet and some lasted just long enough to bring me to the edge myself, only to finish a minute too soon.
I laugh when I read the stories by guys claiming they went for 45 minutes and left the woman worn out but utterly satisfied, the first time he had sex.

 

I prefer to be able to focus on giving my partner pleasure and take my time enjoying their body. My ego gets an incredible boost when I have made her feel desired and have an orgasm(s). That's far more satisfying than my own orgasm.

 

Mt wife needs are taken care of first, always!!

 

My last husband preferred watching someone else take care of my needs. He's an ex now but still loves watching.

 

I've always been the pleaser