If your SO asked you to have sex with someone else while he or she watched, would you do it?

 

If she was into it and wouldn't get upset yes. I've always wished she'd let me find a woman who likes it in the ass and she could watch us do it and hopefully get into it herself.

 

yes, that's why he and I share a girlfriend. She is mostly lesbian just like me but since my husband came first in my life, I am with him and she has to share me with him.

 

Why not? But I would do more...

 

if I was 100% sure it was something they really wanted not just one of those fantasies which they thought they wanted but didn't really....did that make any sense?

 

Yes i would but i would want him to join in as well .. i have done that a few times and ive sat back and watched and omg its hot hot hot .....

 

I'm right there with you.


My GF called me a few weeks ago with a fantasy about me and her and some other girl, and as the fantasy went on, she got more and more jealous. By the end, I asked if she wanted me to shoot my load on the other girl, and she asked me (in the phone sex fantasy, of course) to please do because then the other imaginary girl would have to go take a shower and we could cuddle.

 

yes i would love that and i already did it so many,, thats so hot for me and her too,,

 

We haven't had that exsperiance, but we have done a few threesomes...does that count?

 

Nope, not for this thread anyway. :wink: Watching, as in no participation.

 

Well then to answer your question: No I don't think I could watch my wife get Laid, and not participate.
And if she was with an another woman, I might try...but not succeed.
Sorry.
Doc

 

I could never do it . . . I'm too damn jealous.

 

Me too

 

In my previous relationship I have. I was shocked at first when my gf at the time asked me to have sex with her friend. It was an interesting experience.

 

The 3 some was with her, and an female friend of hers. They didn't do much with each other, and I only did my wife. But I got one hell of a face ride, while my wife rode me!
I have told her if she want to do it with a guy involved that I would try for her, But I don't think I could watch her being screwwed, so she would have to be giving me one hell of a BJ while it was happening. I think my jealousey would ruin the whole thing.
Even after 25yrs with her, it would still be too much for me to handle.
Doc.

 

Hell yeah, been trying to get to that point for years.

 

Jealosy can pop up unexpectedly no matter what you believe beforehand. I'm exclusively into the concept of an exclusive relationship.

No sharing of anything with anybody. Just my honey and me.

 

In my current relationship it won't happen (right now) but in the past, one of my bf's watched me from inside the closet while I had sex with one of his best friends. :-E

 

It would be a diffacult situation I think. I don't think I could stand seeing him with another person without being completely jealous, but if he wanted me to do it and he wanted to watch, maybe, but I'm a person who doesn't like even the idea of cheating. Threesomes and swinging are there, why take it up in secret. But because of the fact that he'd be right there I guess that wouldn't be cheating, I don't know, I guess I'm sort of hung on this decision.

 

I never could, and never would. I'm all for my fiancee and only her.