Ok, so, my girfriend and i have hit the sex part of the relationship. Quick history of her, she just broke up with her girlfriend of 6 years so no dick for her for a long time. She is very very tight, almost like a virgin. She also gets wetter then im used to so, when her and i have our fun, i don;t last as long as a normally do because of the tightness and the wettness. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can last a little longer til she cums ( she takes a little while for that as well and we almost cum together but i go first) . I have tried concentrating on other thigns in the room etc for a few minutes but thats not helping. Any suggestions? Thanks all

 

I believe there are creams/lotions you can buy to help

 

Supposedly using a condom when alone can help.

 

When getting close, just pull out and give her oral for a bit. Works for me, and I've heard no complaints. Assuming you've tried different positions, no luck there?

As long as you're not promptly rolling over and falling asleep, it's not necessarily a bad thing you are first to finish. Means you can focus solely on her for her climax.

 

Haven't heard of that one before.

 

I agreed on this part

 

Have her squeeze the base of you.

 

I had a boyfriend with the same problem, and it worked wonders for me to pull gently but firmly pull down on his balls when he got too close to coming. Sounds rough but it worked. I wouldn't do it constantly though.

 

I do a few things, I would work up to the threshold of a climax then stop just for a few seconds and then continue. The gave me enough time for the sensation to go down a few. Another thing you can do is blow it and pound through it. I have done that a few times, and surprisingly I maintain the erection for another round.

Try playing with her before sex so that she is closer to climax, maybe using a dildo. That works well too.

 

Use o have that problem but gradually grew out of it but yet there are still times I get very sensitive and can lose my load very easily.

There are condoms now that have a desensitizing lotion already on them.
Sometime they work to well and it take to long to cum.

I have also tried wearing 2 reg. condoms at once.

I don't like jerkingoff before hand #1 I'm at an age where i have a long refractory period plus I want to build up all the sperm i can in case she wants me to cum on her.

 

Just have your girl beat your ass when you get close. Okay maybe that doesn't work for everyone. If you are young then come quick and then dive into her pussy with your mouth till your hard again. Twice is nice!

 

Slow down your pace when you feel close and change positions more often. Even try giving oral to your wife if you feel close

 

China Brush, have not used it myself but it is one thing that interests me and I do intend to try it once I get the chance. Check link for details.

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My wife wouldn't like that. Once I've fingered her to a couple of orgasms, she wants me inside and hard in a hurry for her final orgasm. She tells me that if I stopped to calm me down, she would probably lose interest altogether. Feeling (or tasting) her so wet and ready and having watched and felt her cum, I used to be all too ready too. Eventually I found I just had to fuck her just fast enough to keep her interested and just slow enough to keep me in control. Tricky.

However there us a reliable solution.
But you aren't going to like it.
Grow old!
Eventually your testosterone levels decrease and you can keep going just as long as you like.
Sorry!

 

`~ Alcohol always helps me.

 

Thats so shit on you!

 

Breathing and concentration are all you need, though changing positions is added fun to aid ya.

If you can get a good rhythmic breathing going and loosen the tension from your body, you'll find you can go longer. Just think of how you begin to tighten your body when you're nearing climaxing. Breathing and calming and loosening all of your body so that it isn't tense and hyper-feeling to what is happening will totally lengthen your session.

 

try being in some sort of minor pain. had my big toenail removed(sucked.)tried jerkin' it, took 15 minutes of fast hand movement.