I disagree rich. I think that he has blown it forever, there is simply no recovery for this situation, a one off shag maybe but to have a kid with another woman, no way, every argument, every time he is late home every phone call/text etc.

Also let's not forget the poor future mother doesn't know he is talking to his ex............(nice guy).............

He is fucked, it is over.

 

The lad may have blown it, but he can try, if he don't he will always wonder.

 

The subject is a bit too close to home for me.

I hope that he fucks up with the childs mother and her family and they fuck him off,surely the kid would be better off without him.

He actually posted this................."Also, currently the mother-to-be doesn't know to much about me and my ex talking. I've been kind of hiding it (i know bad!) but I want to keep it civil so she doesn't go crazy on me and not let me be part of the childs life.."

I swear I hope you get caught out.
Karma is a fucking bitch ...............:-s

 

What did Ross on "Friends" say - "We were on a break!!!!!!"

 

I guess I wasn't expecting some of those answers. But that is why I posted. Thank you foe sharing youe opinions.

 

Fucking hell, Silver. Get off your high horse and out of your basement. Accidents/shit happens and your 'joke' re. the morning after pill...aye, that can fail too. Sitting in your ivory tower giving 'advice' on shit you know nothing about doesn't help anyone.

At times you're such a prick.

 

I guess this is floating to close to you, okay I won't push it any further. Now you calm down and don't go taking it out on the neighbours puppy, stand outside and do a little puff, puff, pass on your own

 

Well I talked with the baby-mama she said she knew that we weren't going to last. She is being civil with me. I talked with the ex and she said she is willing to take things slow and see where they go.

So I guess I'm getting very very lucky!

 

LUCKY TWAT! :excited:

 

religious enough to not want an abortion... but not religious enough to keep her legs closed until she's married?

This selective religion thing makes my head hurt.....:excited:

 

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Adoption

As a child of adoption, it is a great option. If you two are not ready for this baby, IE not in love, not financially prepared etc. I would strongly suggest it. This way you know your child is going to someone that is ready willing a able to care for your kid, just my .02.

Hoki

 

I don't think any parent is ever 'financially prepared' to have a child. Barring the few jizzillionaires among us, anyway.

Luckily - you don't have to fork out a huge sum as a kind of down payment before the babe's birth. It appears that the money is on some kind of drip-feed, in some cases, until the death of the parent

 

It's no big deal and we are both old and ugly enough to have a discussion without falling out.......

You see I just don't get the mother/father family unit as being important to raise a child, as long as you bring a kid up in a safe, loving environment the gender of the childs "parents" means little or nothing IMO. When I hear of kids going bad because of a "broken home" I think that it's the lamest excuse ever, raised by twats would be nearer the truth.

Again IMO the OP is a complete and utter twat and I feel genuinely sorry for his poor unborn offspring, I hope that the childs mother and family see through this POS and raise the kid without him.

The neighbours dog is safe, he is a good old boy

 

you don't need to be in a romantic relationship with your kid's mom. It would be nice if you were but if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. You can't tie your life down to a woman you don't love becuase of a child. you'll be miserable and will most likely cheat. Save yourself from a relationship that slowly and painfully circles the drain. Keep the child but move on with the other part of your life. Take care of your responsibilities but make yourself happy too.

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why is he a twat? was he supposed to force himself to love somebody he doesn't love?

Love should be a natural, free flowing emotion, not an engineered one.

 

Of course not horned one, that is my point...... if he doesn't love the mother of his kid he should just fuck off out of it, he has come on here looking for sympathy and he won't get it off me, if you don't want a child, use some reliable contraception or risk being called a complete fuckwit.....

That is truly beautiful, your romantic side is a joy to behold, I can hear the lovely music and smell the flowers of prettyness.........

If I was Gay, I would fucking love you......

 

Well, young padawan - imho here are some fine words of wisdom that apply to you quite well.

 

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good luck bro