good question

 

I only show it to my loved one so it doesn't really matter as long as she thinks its good...

 

I'm sure size must give them some confidence. I'm only 6" but she's pretty. he he Besides I see a lot of hung guys on here that could not show you a picture of them fucking a chick to save their lives so go figure. Most woman will tell you great personality out weight size any day. Just like I rather have a plumper with a great personality then a hot chick with a shitty attitude.

 

Many, many things outweigh penis size. It has to be near the bottom on the list of things that are important in life.

I'm sure some guys let being either really big or really small affect their confidence, but that's clearly because that particular guy places so much importance on it. In the big picture, it's really inconsequential.

 

I've had a couple of lovers that were large (over 8") and they were supremely proud of their penis, to the point of having big egos about them. I found they weren't the best lovers because they thought that their big dick was all it took to satisfy a woman.

Personally I'll take a good hard 6" to 8" over a reallly big one any day. The larger a guy is the harder it is to give oral. Also, while slow and romantic sex can be wonderful, sometimes you just want them to pound away. With a really big guy it can hurt. Then he has to hold back and I'd rather that he didn't have to. So for me, a really large dick just ain't all that.

 

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I think size definitely has effects on the behavior of men. It does seem like men with bigger cocks are more laid back and collected as far as interaction with their own life goes. My example of this would be my friend who has a HUGE cock. I saw it during a rave party when the host demanded all guests get naked. He always has a calm attitude, never get's offended by dumb insults, etc. He seems generally secure in all aspects of himself. Of course a lot of guys seem to pick up a cocky attitude too.

As for myself I consider my cock to be about average. could it be bigger? Yes. But honestly I'm comfortable with it, I like the general appearance of it and have put it to the test and have satisfied past partners. I believe that I'm more well rounded because i know I'm normal, but also know I have no special tricks to help me. I also feel that I'd be very unhappy with my life and myself I'f i had a small cock. Because i've seen them in videos and such and have imagined how scary life would be knowing nobody has love for small cock.

Which leads me to small cocks. It seems that people with small cocks are more quiet and reserved. Or go out of their way to produce "sex traps" as I like to call them. Like the guy with a super big expensive car, trying to prove his worth for bedroom intimacy through other means. (I realize this isn't the case for everyone who likes fancy shit like that.)

Of course this is a very amateur and off the top of my head analysis and I realize there are many interchangeable factors in the three categories I've presented and although I do believe it has effects on all men because of how important sex is to us. The varying degree of effect changes from person to person. If you have no care of what women think and don't care about sex I'm sure it's not too important as long as it's big enough to take a piss with.

 

Let me say a few things.

I had a roommate in college who was 5'3" and weighed about 110 lbs. when he was not in training. I mean, this guy was tiny. He was also scrappy as hell, wrestling varsity on the college team in his freshman year and going undefeated not only in his own weight class, but in the the two above that. The little guy was NOT to be fucked with. He used to say, "It ain't the size of the boat. It's the motion of the ocean." And, by the way, he was hung like a Clydesdale.

There was a guy I knew a few years back who was the cockiest, most arrogant son of a bitch you'd ever want to meet. He always claimed to have the best and brightest, no matter what the topic of conversation was. He insisted he had to stop carving notches in his bedposts because he was afraid the bed would collapse. I also knew a girl he tried to fuck. She told me she laughed and got dressed when he dropped his pants.

My family weren't nudists, but it was commonplace for my mother, father, and I to see each other in the bathroom. We had one bathroom, so if I was in the tub, and one of my parents had to use the toilet, well, we saw each other. I always hoped to grow up to have a cock like Dad's, because it was about the size of a decent cucumber, soft. For Mom's sake, I hope it didn't grow too much when they played! Anyway, he's the meekest, most humble guy I think I've ever known, and he was totally dominated by my mother.

Size doesn't matter, unless you're at such an extreme, large or small, that it's more of a deformity. What you do with it is what counts. Realizing that it's not the only tool at your disposal, maybe not even the most important one, when you're with a woman is what matters.

 

I feel what I have should be good enough. If not, I'm probably doing something wrong.

If you're experienced and know your stuff, it doesn't matter if your four inches or forty. All the woman really cares about is how you are giving her mind blowing sex with it.

 

during the sex rather size is not a question,,,,,,for more pleasure the working condition ok cook is important

 

I do have a small penis. However I do not find myself to be boorish nor meek. I have a handful of close friends. And we always go out meet new people. And act like civilized adults.

 

I am just under 6 1/2 inches and about 2 1/2 inches in girth but I don't act or feel like I act dominate or controling, I feel fine with my size and don't worry too much about it. I'm more worried about my size/appearance (I'm 240lbs 6'3") and have a hairy torso. But oh well, I guess its just in my genes for being hairy.

Sorry for kinda going OT.

 

The answer is a resounding YES! Having size gives you more confidence, I love it! People can say all they want about size but every woman i have been goes crazy for a big one. Length and great technique equalls incredible orgasms for her.

 

When talking about a big dick, I consider 7-8 meaty inches a big dick. I believe this is the preferable size if you can find it and don't think the 8-10 inch cocks are very common.

 

I think this answer is somewhat close to the truth. I have very little 'experience' with this, because I do not know how big or small or average 99.9% of the guys I know are, so if someone is confident, not confident or whatever, I just do not know how it relates to the size of their cock---personally.

This would never hold up in a court of law, because it is all hearsay, but I know what girls have told me or what I have overheard.

Three of the girls I have been with have told me that they had had sex with guys with very big dicks (between 8 and 10 inches, approximately); two of them said the the guys (and one of them had been with 2 different guys with large pieces) were boastful of their size, arrogant and at times nasty---and none of the three (according to them) were really any good in bed. The other guy was extremely shy and had little or no confidence in himself (even though, according to the girl who told me the story, he probably had the biggest cock of any of them).

Also, I have overheard two different, fairly lengthy conversations at parties. In one, two girls were talking about this very thing, and both agreed that the 'bigger' guys they had been with were 'confident' in themselves, but to the point of arrogance, and they did not treat women very well. One of them did say, however, that one of the 'bigger' guys she had slept was an excellent fuck, but she just could not stand him out of bed.

The second conversation I overheard was among three women. Two of them had slept with the same guy and both agreed that while he bragged about his big dick and acted like he was God's gift to the world, he was crap in bed. The other woman mentioned a guy she had slept with who was huge, but was really shy and quiet, basically introverted, and was also crummy in bed because he was nervous about everything. She also added that the guy she had slept with who had the smallest cock was the best lover.

Finally (and this is certainly flavored), I was out drinking with this woman I worked with (to be brief, WE never had sex and we had been out with a group that had broken up and we happened to be the last two at the bar) who started talking about her ex-husband (who we also worked with). This guy was a blustering buffoon who abused his power with subordinates constantly and who also bragged endlessly about how many women he had fucked, how they all begged him for sex, and how he had them all on a string. The ex-wife (who certainly was prejudiced) got around to telling me that she got a good laugh whenever she heard him or someone told her about his bragging, because he had a four inch dick at best and was a two-minute, one shot man the whole time they were married.

What does this all mean? Nothing, probably, except that there are all kinds of different men and that some live vicariously through their dicks and some don't.

 

Honestly, maybe some guys with huge dicks get some sort of confidence from it. I have an above-average dick, and I have always received compliments on it from each of my partners. I feel good about myself, but my dick is pretty far down the list of characteristics I am proud of.
I'm happy I don't need to lean on my dick size for self confidence. I have plenty of other things going for me.
I would probably be more cocky if my dick were bigger, and probably have more swagger when I am approaching someone sexually. On the other hand, I would also probably feel a bit more nervous approaching someone if I had a below-average dick.
Always remember, if you can get far enough to get someone to be dealing with your dick in the first place, it is a good thing. And it's all about how you please the other person, regardless of how you do it.

 

I think really powerful and respected men get their power and confidence from something else. It is a state of mind, not a state of penis.

 

reading the comments and thinking about the actual question, I,d have to say, No it doesnt matter. I,d like to tihnk that most peoples personalities are fixed and loaded before they reach an age when they think about the size of their penis.

 

I think in a lot of cases the size does give you more confident but its as you get older as a teen you dont know you have a large dick.

 

It has been my experience that guys with huge cocks don't make the best lovers. I suspect that they think they don't have to be great lovers because they have large cocks. Like my cock makes me a great lover or something.

Now before you guys with monster cocks jump down my throat, let me say that I have had guys with large cocks who were very good lovers. One was very sweet and kept asking me if he was hurting me. He wouldn't put it all the way in until I asked him to.

So this is just what I have experienced and I hope no one gets offended.

Love Megan

 

It smacks of stereotyping if you go down the 'big cock-big lover" track.