Why is it that most men complain that they are not getting enough sex?? Then when they get all they have wanted and more they don't take advantage of it??

There are no area's of sex between two people that is off limits!!! :grin::grin: So why would you pass it up guys??? Don't most guys/men want exactly this??

Just curious on this... have heard a lot of friends going through this type of thing! Thought this would be a great place to get some answers!

 

yeah because it's soooooooo easy for every guy, right? go screw your wife

 

What are you talking about.......or who? Every guy I have ever known when offered was all over it!

 

A woman's sexual attention of any form is not on the decline list!

 

I've wondered that myself, I understand that men can't go as often as women, but is even once a week so much to ask? :wall:
I mean, if he's sick, or tired, I don't even try, but far more often I just get hugged and told "not tonight hun"
Why? Why do guys always say they want it, they want it ALL the time...and then as soon as they realize I'm not going anywhere, I stop getting laid? Is it some kind of big secret? Or am I too aggressive? I've tried waiting for him to make the moves, I get rolled over at 1 AM and get a 5 min quickie after WEEKS of nothing, and then he goes back to sleep. THEN he expects me to be glad I got some. Holy shit, I'd rather have had nothing!

 

Wish my wife would chase me like you two ladies are talking about.

 

Oh!
I'm really sorry!
In our younger age time, we've been having sex THREE times / day!
Even when we were sick (one of us) from influenza, we were just having more sex, since it HELPED us to get better!!! :excited:
The only thing that was slowing us (just a little) was the period!
No, maam, we've been doing IT as much and as long as we could!
Now, in our fifties, we STILL do it! (Not 3 times/day - UNFORTUNATELY!!! )...
Anyway, honestly, I am sorry for your situation...
Good luck!

 

I am going to go out on a limb here and say something stupid. When I was younger, I had alot more stamina and energy. I was in much better shape, I didnt have any serious injuries, a trick shoulder, an old back injury or anything else that would make life hard. Sex was a workout but it was fun. I could go and go and go and after a quick drink of water go some more. Now I have doctors talking about surgery to repair damaged body parts and I could probably use a professional massage every day and a phisical therapist three or four times a month just to keep things well oiled and moving properly.

I am older now. I have had nothing but blue collar jobs requiring lots of hard, phisical labor. Lifting, bending, jumping and whatnot. My body hurts. My back can cause me troubles and my neck is easily strained. Im still strong and can lift with the best of them. I just cant do it nearly as much as I used to. I am tired alot and my stamina has fallen way off from over work and age. Sex now is more of a hastle than it is something to be looked forward to. The last time I had sex I had a severe muscle spasm in my lower back and between my shoulder blades that put a rather uncerimonious end to what could have been some of my best work. Sex has become a hastle and a potential hazzard. Its not for lack of want...It just takes alot more preperation time, stretching and warming up befor I dive in. Spontanious sex is out of the question.

 

For those of you who answered the questions.... THANK YOU!!!

The situation isn't mine!!! I am one of the lucky ladies who after 20 years is still have great sex!! several times a week at least! our sex life is getting better with age! I am extremely happy! NO complaints on my part!:excited:

I have had some unfortunate friends who have not been so lucky with their guys! ... :wall: That's why I asked the questions! To help out my girlfriends... because that's the kind of friend I am!!

and yes there are ladies out there who are not interested in sex as much as their guys are.. agreed!

 

Thank you for your honesty! Very much understood!! Thanks for your input... it was very much appreciated! Take care of yourself!

 

Ok... still being young... I have no clue what you're talking about from my own experiences. I never turn down sex as long as I am interested in the woman. I have had women throw them selves at me and said no because I was not attracted, but I feel that is a different story. However, I have had two girlfriends in the past that thought having sex "very often" was once a week at best, and sorry, but it isnt. I never have, but I have thought about turning those two down and seeing how they feel when they are told no.
Sorry, but i bet your friends have said "NO" their fair share of times, and now the guy is just saying no to get even. You tell a guy no enough times, the desire just goes away, or in my case, I just went away from the women. Maybe this will help your point of view.

 

Some men enjoy the challenge and the chase. When sex isn't a sure thing then they desire it more. For some men when sex is freely available they aren't as interested because the thrill of the challenge is no longer there.

 

Wife and I are both around 60. We (screw, make love, have sex, fuck - pick one) literally 5 to 6 times a week, sometimes more. We do love each other very much and make our physical bonding a priority, even when the kids were young, just lock the door. Sooner or later it becomes a private part of our lives that the kids just grow up with. I want them to have the same values. Teach your children well - make love every day.

I have had heart attacks. Can't think of a better passing then while enjoying the female body. Not bragging at all, just am amazed at the want for sexual pleasure that's out there.

From a child of the 60s: Make Love, not War.

 

I AGREE 100%!!! ... Beautifully said!!

 

Trust me, they're not really complaining that they're not getting enough sex...they're complaining that they don't get enough sex with multiple partners.

 

*flashing the peace sign* Peace, love, dope, sweetie! Your wife is a lucky woman. :rose:

 

I hope when me and my wife are 60 we have sex 5-6 times a week! You're a lucky man!

 

or a tired man lol

 

the chase is better than having it on tap in my experience, speaking from experience I've slept with a lot of girls and it's the experience up to the point you cum in them that the chase is done, maybe a bit more if you have oral, sex and anal with them.

i've had some really good looking and nice gfs but after a while you get used to it, and so that's when other girls look attractive so you start getting that rush again to chase more tail as such. must be hard for women because that's why you get girls having plastic surgery etc to keep ahead of the game.

 

Who Are These Guys?

Turning down reasonable offers of sex with a willing partner, the wife and I are just coming into our own time as we prepare to move the last kid (21) out. It's never been about quantity more than creative quality in keeping it fresh and new, my wife had the makings of a sexual prude but, I taught her to keep an open mind and experience things before putting them in the negative category. Some men don't know what they have or possess the skills to hold on to it!