I can sympathize with you! I have never been able to cum when any woman sucks my cock! Many have tried. I have no problem when a man sucks my cock! I attribute it to the fact that men know what it should feel like.

 

Wait as long as necessary for an orgasm to be inevitable the next time you have sex, be it 2 days, 1 week, 1 month (!), whatever.

Tell her in advance, that before the blowjob she needs to tell you where she wants your cum: pumped into her mouth behind her tight, slippery lips, encouraged by her sucking tongue massage.

You need to know that's exactly what she desires. Then you'll know what to do, and you will please her every request. That's what good men do.

 

can't cum from blowjob

This is amazing to me ..It must be you're possible having a mental problem or your mate is truly inexperenced at sucking cock....Most guys with smaller cocks are fast to cum , bigger cocks take a bit longer ...This doesn't always run true to fact, but seems to run true with my experiences ...Relaxe, lay back and fantasise something that turns you on ..I'm sure the cum will start flowing....

 

That was a beautiful cumshot so much cum mmmmmmmm very nice .....

 

dizzy had good advice and i've been doing that myself for a long time

sometimes however it does backfire on you

when they take it as a challenge and you still don't cum over time they think your lieing and they think its because they aren't good enough or that you find them ugly

telling them up front does help the problem but not every time

 

My secret to a great BJ is to watch the guy touch himself. If a lover lets me watch him jack himself till he cums, then I know how to touch him, and especially know what to do to put him over the edge. I never have trouble getting a guy to finish once I see how he finishes himself.

Of course, you could just think of the BJ as foreplay and cum wherever you want to.

 

suck longer..........up and down.

Hush......an alias

 

I know exactly what you mean. What is often said as "I'll rock your world" to me turns out to be ok.

I have to say though that the nastier it gets the less inhibited things get the more i get into it and the more intense my cum.

I have no suggestions unfortunately other than maybe she can 'own it' more? As in she gets into it more? I dunno.

 

ok ... I have read a few of your post ... I like your technique .. you approach things right.

 

Why thank you.

 

For example, when my husband is jerking himself, he really works the head. But when he is ready to cum, he lets go of the head, grabs the base hard, and stretches against the tension. When I suck him, if I keep working the head as he is ready to cum, it is too much stimulation and he pulls back from the edge. If I want him to cum, I grab the base and only touch the head lightly with my tongue.

I also know his fantasies and his triggers, so all I have to do is whisper the right something at the right time and he'll finish for me.

I can work him as I please, making him cum when I want and pushing him back if I want to tease longer or hop on for a ride.

Men grow up touching themselves, and they know very well how to make themselves cum. Everyone I have ever fucked has very clear signs when they are ready, and touches themselves in their own special way when they want to finish.

The bottom line, it is about knowing the man (and his cock) not knowing how to give a BJ. There is no one special way to give a BJ- it is as unique and wonderful as the vast selection of men out there.

If she truly can't make you cum, it is probably because you have not taught her how to please you right. When I have a lover, I teach him how to please me- shouldn't you do the same for yourself?

If all the men out there want to improve the quality of your sex, be sure that you can describe to yourself, in great detail, how you make yourself cum. If you haven't thought about that enough to know how to describe it, then don't be surprised when a girl has trouble figuring it out. The great magic of fucking is knowing your own body and helping your lover figure out its secrets while learning theirs. :rose:

Sorry for the soap-box, but I am a girl with opinions. :excited:

 

This comment seems to have gone unnoticed. He's right on the money. Prostate massage will do the trick for sure.

 

Very nice, but for myself to reach peek and really let go, I need to be an active partner.
Must be my oral fixation, but having my lips on her sweet sex and my tongue buried deep in her drives me over the top.
SW

 

So you don't come by yourself? That would make you unique among men.

I say with confidence, if you can make yourself come, and you let me see you do it, I can make you come without you ever touching me.

 

"I think it's your mind"

Mmmm, thank-you.
Excitement is all in the mind and I suspect you could do wonderful things with my imagination.
:rose:
SW

 

If you had one of my wife's, you would not have any problems cumming

 

I have the same problem and sometimes the lady involved has shown surprising effort and stamina.

I often have to have my partner switch between oral and hand massage, and often have to change positions; sometimes it can be too intense and I have to relax into it for any hope of payoff...

 

No offense intended, every woman who has given me a blowjob was absolutely certain her skills could do it for me and I'd be amazed.

I have had many amazing blowjobs but quite a few were accompanied by a "how much longer is this gonna take?" looks/comments.

 

Wow. Sage advice,and wisdom. Thanks, you made my day!<wink>

 

I bet I can.