My wife and i was have a talking about swallowingand sucking cock. She said "Most women don't like to swallow". I asked her about sucking cock. She said most women do it just to pleases men. I would love to hear from other about this. Yes - you like to swallow and do you like sucking cock.

 

You'll never get a complete answer because sex surveys are self-fulfilling in most cases. Fact is there are women who enjoy giving oral sex and there are women who do it to keep him happy. There are others who outright hate it. I, for one, enjoy going down on my man. I don't mind him ejaculating in my mouth BUT I struggle with the consistency as it feels like a huge loogie in my mouth. The taste doesn't bother me and again, I'm happy to swallow and enjoy the act. I personally just struggle with the actual consistency of his load.

 

This isn't an easy question: The honest answer is it depends on the guy.

There are guys who blow once then want to go to sleep. Without sounding harsh, what's the point?
There are guys who behave badly, forcing their cock down your throat without warning, or bully women into doing it (the good old nudge on the top of the head).
There are other guys who just are unfortunate enough to have a vile tasting load.

There are, on the other hand, guys who don't pressure, don't force, and reciprocate. They treat a woman with respect during and after. If a guy is well behaved, considerate, and at least considers pineapple juice occasionally, it's a huge amount of fun.

There are fun blow jobs and not fun blow jobs. Think about the stuff you like it when a woman does while you're going down on her. Talks, moans, touches your face and hair, caresses your cheek. Same for us! We like to know what we do is appreciated, when we're getting it spot on.

The world isn't divided into women who like it and women who don't... But the message I'd take from your wifes sentiment: she's not having a world of fun down there, be appreciative, courteous and try and make it sexier for her.

 

I love to swallow.

 

well she give me a good heads and she hold on her mouth but she never swallow the consistensi its the hard part to her.........

 

I'll suck and swallow if the guy returns the favor and doesn't force anything on me.

 

I have met many women who find it repulsive. I think that a lot of that is how women are trained to be sexually repressed in the West, but not everybody is turned on by the same things. "Most women don't like to swallow" is probably a fair assessment, depending upon where you live.

I think that part of the problem is that men just want to get at it. I certainly have a point where you get me so aroused that inhibitions fall away, and things I might not have wanted to do suddenly become very sexy. One problem with BJs is that men often don't seem to feel the need to help the woman get in the mood. Treat me nicely, make me drool for your body and your cock, and I am much more likely to drool for your cum.

It also depends upon mood for me- sometimes that is all I want, others I am looking for something else. When you are getting blown, you are not the only person in the room, you know?

 

would you like a cushion for your knees?

 

I prefer to have you laying down, it is much more comfortable that way.

 

This is exactly what my girl says about going down on me.

 

My only comment is that your wife doesn't know what she's talking about. She has her own opinion plus that of maybe 2 or 3 girlfriends to go by, and she thinks this qualifies her to talk about what "most women" like. It doesn't.

 

As others have pointed out: you can't take an entire gender and throw them all (or even "most") into one bag. I really don't trust anyone who says "most" of X prefer Y (and I absolutely won't trust them if they say "all"). She is creating a stereotype based on her personal preference.

I know women who love sucking cock because they enjoy the sensation, who love swallowing because they love the taste (and the cleanliness with less cleanup!), and who love sucking & swallowing because it pleases their man. To a lot of women (and to a lot of men who feel the same about cunnilingus), there is no such thing as "just" doing it to please. For many people, there is a huge amount of sexual satisfaction that comes from pleasing someone else, and is pretty much the driving desire for a lot of people, myself included.

I call it being romantic

 

My wife always swallows but the times she doesnt is normally when I had something fucked up to eat and says the cum has that sort of after taste lol

 

There are things experienced women can do with their hands, lips and tongue that are amazing. No women I know enjoys deep throating and it in fact really is a part of domination and control rather than the feeling of the penis. It is a standard item in BDSM sex but the sensation is uncontrolled and not actually fun for the man or the woman. Swallowing is optional; some men seem to think it is a matter of respect but obviously not an act that enhances the feeling for the man - it is a mental thing. Respect your woman - guys -by returning the favor. If you won't go down on her, you have no right to ask for a BJ.

 

I definitely love going down on my lover, he enjoys it, I enjoy it, and although swallowing is good, but I prefer to give him a nice big kiss with my mouth full of his cum. And then when I swallow a bit, I can taste it in the back of my throat all day as a lovely reminder.....

 

Oh my goodness baby!! Fuck your husband! Get over here and put the now-hard cock down your throat!! Doctors orders!!!

 

But I don't want to fuck my husband baby! It's all for you! Ha Ha - obviously that is my lover....and apparently he likes my style.

 

Great dialogue. I learned a bit.

 

Generally speaking, there are three categories of women:
1. Women who like to suck dick (swallowing involved);
2. Women who just do it to please their men (swallowing or no swallowing involved);
3. Women who just refuse to suck dick (no swallowing involved - of course!).

NOTE: Please try to browse the other threads before posting new ones - this subject has been so... "enhanced" on this forum!

 

Started out just doing it to please the guy... but eventually I grew to love it because they love it so much and since I get so much praise from it. Something about having that much power...

"I might be on my knees, but I got um by the balls!"
-Samantha Jones