Okay I am a male 43 years of age married with kids and have sex with my wife about once a month , I have a single female neabhor that is in her late 20's she is very fine and soft spoken she works every day and is home every night even all weekend an have yet to have a visitor in over a year that she has lived there, so I think you all know where this is going by now, how do I get in this hot young things pants.

 

Okay, go buy a dozen roses.

Strip naked.

Then slap the thorn ridden bouquet into your groin repeatedly until every last petal and leaf are on the ground at your feet. Feel free to follow that up with a hammer to your testicles and a nice envigorating bath in lemon juice.

She won't be able to resist you after that.

 

Agreed. Don't. You'll regret it. Might be fun for a while, but a) it won't last and b) you'll lose your wife and kids.

Not worth it.

 

Your married with kids, sort your life out and look after your family!!! dont be that guy dude you'll regret it.

 

while i would say losing your wife isn't that big of a deal, losing your kids would be. People get divorced all the time, its not even a big deal anymore, but your kids are YOUR'S !! if lose them, you may as well kill yourself. of course i'm not endorsing suicide. just saying, you'd have nothing left to live for.

 

When you cheat on your wife you also cheat your kids out of having an honourable, respectful father. When you shit on your own doorstep, these things will always get found out. If your sex life is the problem, sit your wife down and talk about it. You could suggest bringing a third person into "ye're" sex life, suggest a list of things to spice the bedroom time up. I dont think you're going to find the answer you are looking for here. Best of luck no matter what you decide.

 

I hate to agree with the other voices of reason here, but they are right. It would not be worth it. Trust me. Even if it's the best you can imagine, you will get hurt bad. Really bad. On this one, imagination is better than reality. Dude, I'm not lying to you. I've been there and it wrecks your life.

 

The same way you get any woman to have sex with you... Simple !

Well ok maybe not so simple since she probably knows you are married, she has kids and the last thing she probably wants is to complicate her life any further by having sex with someone who has to come on to a porn forum to get an answer to a very straight forward question.

 

Thank you all for your opinions I respect all of them for I knowow

Fantasy is safer then reality but the thought is driving me crazy as to what she is doing all alone , another factor is my wife is only the second women I have been with and there are things I want to do with a women that I know my wife will never do.

 

Forget the girl, try to find ways to have more fun with your life. Affairs usually lead to disasters and that certainly was the case for my wife and I. Sex is just another drug and try to remember that.

 

Sounds like you're letting this fantasy turn into an obsession, tread carefully my friend. I would prefer my wife to be angry with me because of what i suggested to her, rather than the actions i have made against her. On a side note, if this other woman in her 20s is so hot, how come she hasen't had any visiters for such a long time

 

If your going to be dumb enough to cheat then don't do it with someone who lives right next door to you. your asking to be caught by doing that.

 

I dissagree, i have been married 35 years my wife refuses to give me what I want and need, i get it elsewhere. Adds up to about one a year, just lost my gf and am looking for another one.

 

man. dont shit where you sleep. even dogs know this.

 

My First wife and I were married 18 yrs. She had a friend that used to come over often and well I got the idea that I wanted to try her on for size. So after talking to the wife and being "honest" she made it happen and yes "Julie" was everything I thought she would be. But guess who could not handle it, Yep woman have a problem with this kind of thing.

Just to explain, I told my first wife I wanted this but would understand if she did not. This went down as a three some (wifes idea) and we all had a great time or so we thought. Needless to say Julie and I had sex for a while after the wife left. The only good thing was I was very open with my kids and all of them understud and chose to stay with me 75% of the time, so that part was Ok, but still not worth the outcome in the end.

Be careful, if I had it too do all over again, I know what would not have happend.

 

35 yrs and your wife refuses to give you what you want?..... i dont mean to be disrespectiful... but what about what you want?.... or are you just a fool, ie, never expressing your needs with the one you love?

 

just reading over your post again, 35 years of not getting what you want.....i feel sorry for you

 

First don't Fuck the neighbor!!!! if your site isn't giving up the goods and you feel you must cheat hire an escort. they'll keep quiet. but keep on mind you Fuck up it's half your stuff and kids gone for a piece of ass.

 

First and foremost you have to be brutally honest with yourself!! Would the risk be worth it loosing your family? All relationships goes through stages where intimacy and sex have peaks and lows. My suggestion would be to work on your relationship with your wife, communication is key. Do you still date your wife, do flirt with her, are you romantic with her, does she feel special?

Let me ask you this, would you be happy if she does this to you with a neighbour? Cheating is easy....divorce will break your children's hearts!! Unless of course your wife agrees that you can persue your neighbour. I would not do that, rather fantasise about her!!

Getting into her pants is no different to getting into your wife's pants, the same rule apply. Flirt, complement, be creative with romantic ideas, make her smile and let her feel very special in your presence will do it!!

But hey, its your life...just my opinion. Good luck!!

 

Very serious and honest!

If this woman lives in a house in the neighborhood, she is just "forbidden" to you!

If you need to cheat, just go find someone in the other side of your town!!!
Or, even better, in another town!!!

Please note that, no matter how hard you feel the need to have your dick wet, elsewhere than your wife's cunt, you are a husband and a father!

You can never be sure that there won't be I don't know what "stupid" friend or acquaintance who will see you, and make sure that your wife finds out!!!

Just beware, and take care!