I agree with you love I may tell a woman that she is beautiful and may compliment on there body. But to tell the truth when you are a nice guy on here you get a lot of rejections so maybe that is why some guys act out I maybe wrong but guys like me get no play

 

I personally think that a lot of men on the forum do act in a polite, gentleman fashion. I know that whenever I start a conversation with someone on the site, I always start with a friendly hello and an invitation to chat if they are interested. Now there are sometimes when a woman will ask for a picture of my cock, or want me to call her a slut, or other blunt topics; but only when it has been established that they want it and that I am not forcing it upon them. I think that a few immature men forget that on the other end of the conversation is another human being with thoughts and feelings of their own and not just a free vagina to be looked at.
(The views expressed by HornyMate92 are his own and do not reflect XNXX or any other members... unless they share his views)

 

I expect that my coming into the computer age in my 40s and really discovering sites like the XNXX Forum in later life has allowed me to see things more from Lil Donna's standpoint. In fact, I have been quite surprised with myself about what I have written to some women, and that I have approached women far younger than myself when I realized I might well be encouraged - what a surprise.

Why did I start on the XNXX Forum? well, i found the overt porn site first and wanted to enjoy the sights and sounds, but the real reason is that I wanted to expand my sexual imagination, and this site does that better than a second site which attracted me because it encouraged visual presentation over an exchange of ideas and fantasies.

I am certainly a visual man, but I want my mind's eye to help in my sexual selection process. Let's face it, I do not have a perfect body, but my mind is in pretty good shape. I know I like the vulgar side of sexual imagining, even if the reality is far more tame.

 

As a man who does like to get to the down and dirty, at least in chat, I want to concur with you. Part of finding out about the person you wish to get to know is to show that you respect the person first and foremost. I have met some women who are totally comfortable with me being very vulgar with them, but who also appreciate that we both know it is fun.

 

haaatyy said: ↑
My 7 inch penis doent undersrand dis all thing ..he only knows to fuck u all bitches
Lil Donna responded:
And between your your grammar, spelling and attitude you'll never find your 7 in a truly good woman and we thank the Universe for "dat"
And I continue:
You may have 7" but you really don't know how to use it for anything more than abuse. I know, if I were a woman, your initial attitude would be very negative.

 

thats exactly the sort of thing and we only get it in private messages so people don't see. It isn't everybody though, lots of good people to.

 

So it seems that some guys just join xnxx, sign in and start sending filthy PM's.

Then they wonder why they get no response. Better to flirt on the open forum for a while and attract and test the interest of the other members. Then make a move!

Here endeth the first lesson!

thinskin

 

Thank u here

 

My first message was a BIG picture of a black cock and a note that said something like "I know you want it?" the next was a vulgar rant about what someone would do to me. Had either opened with an intro or a joke (even a dirty one) the block that followed may not have happened or at least I could've politely declined the interest.

 

I'm not here to make online lovers, I have Milo and this is to encourage a wider range of sexual thought, ideas and fantasies which if it was to find sex on the web I wouldn't. Milo would have his MMF fantasy with all due respect to those who are looking for that which I just don't need at the moment.

 

Giggling! Now that's the sort of teasing, mixed message that can get you into trouble Donna!

Thinskin

 

In the real world good guys get turned down too, I can't explain it like other women might be able to on here though I think it's all about a balance of interest and timing that makes or breaks a situation?

 

Thanks Milo warned me about you LOL

 

I'm touched!

Thinskin

 

You must find that perfect mix between being nice and being a little dirty. We like that. A guy that can be sweet, respectful and know how to have a normal conversation. But yet knows how to turn you on. And can get dirty and sexual when it's the right time. And trust me women send off those vibes when they are ready to play. Men just have to pay attention to what her wants and needs are.

 

LOL paying attention is not always a man's strong suite!

thinskin

 

Well you do!! It might not be but women like that. So if he wants what he likes then he may need to learn to focus!!!

 

For real. How much time do they think I spend on the lighting and angle of my photos... or especially the ones with cute outfits. Those don't put themselves on and they aren't comfortable, either. So I put a lot of effort in, already. It makes an impression when a guy shows appreciation for that.

 

To be honest I always show a woman respect, it was how I was raised. Now I can say i'm a little more relaxed about alot after my time dating Digivixen and i'm more than capable of a good spanking without feeling like i'm abusing the woman. To be honest in the time i've been here I think the only person i've pmed is Digivixen.......i'm kinda shy in social situations like forums of personal matters like sex.

Tldr: I respect women.