*to fuck your fucking partners(off)..,or..,give birth to those fucking children.,or choose the both fucking ways...! x(n)xx..

 

What about love? I am not getting married any time soon so all that is null.

 

I can't remember why we got married, its too long ago now. Its still the best decision I ever made. (Our 25th anniversary next May.)

 

love that tonybs..,wishin you happy anniversary in advance..!xxx

 

At first I thought it was mutual love - 8 years later I was proved wrong.

 

It lasts longer than peeing on them.

 

It seemed like a good idea at the time. The green card was also useful (but not the reason we got married).

Actually, it still seem like a good idea, but I don't know why. (We just had our 21st.)

 

Never been married and no foreseeable plans for it!

 

Someone sounds bitter!!!!!

 

why did I get married. It wasn't for any religious reason for me, I'm an atheist so that wasn't it. it wasn't so we could have sex we had been having sex for years before we got married, so that wasn't it. It wasn't to prove my love or make me more faithful I have already loved my wife with my whole heart and been faithful since we started dating (not including our swinging but we don't consider that infidelity we're both always involved)

In the end we got married I think for tradition. she had always wanted the wedding gowned and the church, it was also a great reason to see our family and friends, it was beautiful hot July day we drank and danced and partied well into the night. And it was nice ceremony to make our love public and to hopefully spread a little of our happiness around.

we would actually like to do another wedding so that our kids could come this time.

so tradition and the family get together/party is the short answer.

 

remington brings up a good point. It is indeed for a tradition that bring families together. Dont think its really for the parties...but maybe for the love as well.

 

Whyhyy whyyyh whyyy

 

Marriage is a institution (and a mental one at times) all in all though if when your younger your fortunate enough to find someone, fall in love and you want to be with them for the rest of your life? No different from what gays use to call a "commitment ceremony" is basically what marriage is, you make a statement in front of friends, family, witnesses and/or God (beliefs depending) that you give your heart, mind, body and soul to only one. Unfortunately the failure of marriage comes down to the human factor of expectations not being what they are, anticipation of a grand design (especially sexual) foolish beliefs of it always being you and her or him when at the end of the day we're all individual people who still have to live independent of each other too.

The variables are such that the pressure can be great to the tolerance and how you adapt plays a very big role as along the way many things unfold such as children, mortgages, bills, etc; all of which can affect a person who is not married as well. In marriage "how you handle these changes" make all the difference if both of you never lose sight that you have a lifetime partner in these ventures and while it may not make sense being single doesn't assure you anything more then what you put into it. Look at the reckless self centered lifestyles of those who willingly and dangerously play the game causing STD transmissions and making babies that they can no more afford or have intention on caring for as just a few examples of the single life. Those who will have no one at the end of their days to know that they loved for 50-60 years, sure it's not easy but believing it would be is how loves works at first albeit foolishly and madly head over heels.

Now speaking for my after over 31 years together, 28 of them married through all the illnesses, injuries, sexual fiascoes, heartbreaks, happiness, helplessness, cheating and otherwise. At the end of the day even if I had the worse one ever, the woman lying next to me has been my best friend who has shared all this with me and it took work that has made me a stronger man for it. Marriage is not for the weak or the delusional it takes time, effort and commitment on both parts to make it work, if your someone who generally throws out the baby with the bathwater when things get tough or gives up because your not getting your way then marriage is not for you. In the same way you also have no right to knock it if you don't know it or were never good at it.

Just my opinion, Milo Cronos

 

Definitely love ... I want to belong to my husband. He says we are soul mates.

 

love that word (soul mate)..!

 

I'm starting to wonder why myself.

 

"...give birth to those fucking children..."

Wtffff

 

you get angry easily a.pussy lol ...wtff

 

We wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. And if we were going to be doing that anyway, we may as well get legal recognition so we can file joint taxes and be on each other's insurance plans and have hospital visitation rights and so forth.

 

I love being married...obviously, after 3 times. LOL! I married my soulmate this time, and we share everything we feel, right down to the molecular level.