First off, I'm new to xnxx and still getting the hang of this forum so all suggestions welcome. I just got out of a long term relationship (she dumped me...I wasn't ready for marriage and she was demanding it).
Before I dated her, I was pretty much a sex addict, lol. Usually found a new girl each week either through Internet hookups or dive bars. I'd lose touch with most of the girls but had months with 5 or 6 fuckbuddys ready to go.
Not really proud of all that (I Always used protection though and got tested regularly) but here I am wanting to go back to anonymous sex.

Any thoughts on whether going to bars or internet hookups will work better to meet new girls? I'm especially looking for a female perspective here since my ex messed with my head and I'm feeling such an urge to go back to the extreme of fucking every girl in sight. I was monogamous with her so that's why I say other extreme

 

I say go out to the clubs and have fun trying to hook up. But I like the chase and flirtation about as much as the actual act. Good luck!

 

Drink beer and fuck all you can

 

What is your age? What do you consider a long term relationship?


Why do you feel it's important to have a relationship with a woman if you have been engaging sexual encounters with random hook ups?

My advice would be to avoid looking for a new relationship if you still feel like your old one fucked you up. Get your priorities straight because you can have female friends without sexual relationships.

Everyone is different so, my advice my not be applicable to you or everyone.

Imo, a healthy, long lasting monogamist relationship can be had when you form a solid friendship and its evolves into a sexual relationship. Your friendship and sexuality will grow with experience and time. Some folks hook up and make a friend after fucking too. But, I find that is less common.

When you have an emotional attachment to someone, have common interests and enjoy each other's company beyond sex, you'll find it's easy to maintain a monogamist relationship. You'll only have eyes for your partner and look forward to spending time with them in the bedroom, or where ever you want to frolick, and then make meals together and do what ever. Long walks on the beach......lol


Where do you meet such amazing women? Generally avoid the bars and night clubs. Modern world, on line has actually gotten better.

I wasn't much of a dating scene fella but, I met wonderful people in the most common of places. The supermarket.....the park, a restaurant.....if you have a hobby such as hiking or bike riding trails etc,

I've offered to help fix or adjust some lovely lady's bicycle. But, I happen to know my way with a bicycle. It lead to her inviting me over to her house for something to eat.........

Acts of kindness opens the door to flattery and in turn.......

Think about what interests you have outside of fucking women and let that be a good starting point of finding some one you may have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with. Or at least make some decent friends.

Or joint the dart league, have a few pints and continue hooking up with the local bar wenches. Not that there is anything wrong with that!

 

Go out and fuck like a rabid rabbit....................

 

Thanks for all the advice. Ladies, are there times when you're specifically hitting up bars for random sex?

 

You clearly didnt have any issues getting pussy before, so I see no reason why anything will have changed on that front now.

If casual sex is what you crave then go for it.

 

No ladies have answered your first question. You really think you're going to get any to answer your second? Ladies out here are smart. If you're looking for a sympathy fuck on here, you came to the wrong place. Now on the other hand, if you're looking for a guy to suck your cock. Your odds are much, much better.

 

Well, I guess that's it for posting on these forums. I'm straight but have nothing against guys who are gay or bi.
My issue is that I never asked for sympathy, just a girl's perspective since I already heard from guys.
So every girl on here is cynical about guys asking opinions on sex? Really, isn't this a sexuality forum? I'll just ask some female Facebook friends and probly get more answers...just came here because I thought girls would be more open minded. Lol, do I not meet the e-harmony compatibility girls require on here. Or should I just keep it shallow and go "great tits", can't wait for you to ignore me.