I thought I'd open the topic > seriously > because women are supposed to be real happy at this point in time.

 

yes. I suppose some do.

 

I can only tell you my experience and perspective. I often relive moments in my life that can bring me to tears, other times it because I fear I will not have climaxed before I wear my partner out and the situation saddens me because of why I can't reach climax at the same time. I have also cried in joy at the times I found someone who could really satisfy me and gave a damn enough to push themselves through to try and make me happy.

 

The lapdance is always better when the stripper is crying.

 

I find it quit a trill, when she grinds me against her will! Lmao

 

That has happened to me with a couple of women. Neither could give me an explanation that I could understand. I do not understand crying after an orgasm or after sex.

A male friend confided in me that he has cried after sex with one particular lady friend. He explained that she was very physically attractive and admired him but his self-esteem was low at the time. He felt he (either) didn't deserve her or was very, very fortunate that she was in a relationship with him. He said he cried after sex with her and hid his face in a pillow. He pretended to be orgasming in order to cover his sobs.

I don't get it. It seems sad and tragic to me that one person needs tears to express whatever feelings he or she has about having sex with another person he or she claims to love.

 

Hopefully not like happens in porn sometimes...

 

That's AWFUL! She shoulda bit his dick off and then puked it out.

 

There's a little part of me that still likes to think of those experiences as if I were some kind of super stud. That's not important. My ego will survive just fine on its own merits (or other delusions of grandeur). As a younger man, I mean much younger, It freaked me out! I was as incapable and as inexperienced as any man and too busy navigating pleasures of the flesh to comprehend any significant emotional crap.

I don't ever remember not caring but It started so early in my sex life that It was kind of normal. Before I get the 'pics or it never happened brigade' involved, of course it didn't happen with everyone. It happened frequently in a couple of early relationships and randomly in random situations but most of my growing years, they cried through disappointment only I'm sure.

It happens less frequently with age and I know its an emotional cry, that I relate to relief about connecting with someone or relief from a hell that no man could understand.

I only know for sure, they no longer cry through disappointment for several weeks into a relationship and that's never related to sex.

 

Oddly enough, I have cried BEFORE sex, about something unrelated. I really wanted intimate sex right after the emotional release of crying, and feeling so emotionally intimate when he hugged or supported me thru the tears.

There's a lot to "hate" about PUA bloggers. But some saying they have, that any kind of emotional impression is better than none, to get her interested sexually. I haven't had many partners, but I've seen how emotional stirring within me leads to sexual stirring, and visa versa. One type of energy converts to the other, and it's easier than a cold start.

 

Just imagine if it happens all of the time. How would that be?

 

Who is the female

 

I can tell you my emotional outbursts have ground things to halt on many occasions. And after I explain the situation the moment has past. Makes for an ackward evening.

 

It depends on the girl. I've been with some that love to cry while getting fucked and some that actually hurt. If she likes it I like it, if she doesn't then I don't.

 

I've had a few women cry with happiness because of their organism. An orgasim can be very emotional. Geez, nothing wrong with it. A couple of them cried because they never
experienced one. I got emotional too. Women can cry if it hurts too. Many reasons.

 

My organism is quite happy where it is, thanks.

 

I don't get it at all, but it could just be a physical release thing - as you orgasm and your body reaches that "hyper" state of arousal (physical peak of excitement/energy in this case is what I mean, not sexual arousal in the usual terms) it could be a knock on effect of releasing further pressure of sorts.

I dunno though, just seems crying is like a physical release to me - in its action. But I dunno, don't get it otherwise. Never cried after consensual sex.