I can finally say at my age, "in my day" during my years of sexual discovery getting a hold of raunchy material took a lot of creativity and a handful of cash. Now there's just so much free shit that it seems almost redundant to pay in advance unless we're talking about hookers or going out to find the real deal!

 

They live among us

 

pretty sure that people that pay for cams or videos do it mostly for the parasocial aspect of it.

 

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I don't think anyone is a "loser" for doing it at all. There are a lot of older fellas whose wives sexually checked out years ago, and they crave interaction and are willing to pay for it, knowing it is not reality.
Personally, I like interaction way-way-way more than porn. So I cam broadcast myself several times a month. Goes without saying that 99.99% of the watchers are all men. But I don't mind that, I just like to be watched. Would I consider camming with a paid person, probably not. I have thought about it, usually when horny, but I doubt I ever do. Of all the fellas on porn sites I have talked to - most of the girls are terrible. Ranging from barely paying attention to you, to just flat out rude.

 

I don't pay for porn.

 

Wow hit me where it hurts why don't you, right in the coffee actually my dear I love a good fresh hot cup of coffee about as much as I like a hot pussy (it depends on the time of day) But you can keep your flavored varieties and real men don't order iced, lattes, frappes and such

 

I found out someone I know was on OF so I just had to pay for that shit. Same principal I guess.
If it wasn’t for the fact that I knew her I never would have paid to see a stranger when there’s millions of other girls out there I can see for free.

 

I support OnlyFans models that I like, it's really that simple. If you know what goes on in the industry, and it used to be so much worse before the women could branch out on their own. If I like a particular model, for whatever reason, I will support her through OF if I have the means.

I consume plenty of free stuff, all over the place, but I still support those I feel deserve to be compensated for their work. Just like anything you consume, you pay for it if you feel it's worth spending your money on.

 

If someone has disposable income to spend. Then he/she can spend it however they like. But I doubt anyone can be suckered in as you say. One would have to be pretty naive IMO.