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  1. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Actually @Dragonmaster1516 I kinda see where you're coming from. Basically, and this is just an assumption and paralleling with my own experiences, your brain is categorizing women mostly into two categories: fuck or don't fuck. As soon as you put one in the fuck category, you start to overthink things, question yourself, try to over-analyze what you say, what she says, everything about the situation. If you put her in the latter group, you don't have those problems, because, and don't take this the wrong way, you have no second agenda. There's no goal to be reached, nothing to plan or scheme towards. It doesn't make you a bad person, let's be honest here most people think this way when it comes to wanting to be with someone sexually or romantically. You think of what you can do to make what you want become reality. So my advice to you is fairly simple. Don't have any expectations. Think that every time you talk to that person will be the last time you do, and learn to be perfectly fine with that. If you do continue to talk, great. If you don't then who cares? That was the expectation anyways. Keep your expectations low, don't pressure yourself, and chill the fuck out. It makes it much easier. I'm still working on this myself, it doesn't happen overnight, so have some patience with yourself too.
     
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      I second this! Very well said. When you go into it thinking of her in the "fuck" category, your expectations are high and if things do not go as you hope, you may have bad feelings knocking you out of the running in the future of getting to know her better and possibly getting to your original goal.
       
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      Holy fuckin run on!
       
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      Nah you're good lol
       
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  2. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    Trying to win over a lady is like a job search. You are likely to be turned down a hell of a lot more than you'll be accepted, it takes a toll on your psyche. Also, you don't have to always go for the 9s and 10s. Adjust your sights down a bit if this is the case.
     
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      I never aim that high besides there's no such thing as a woman being a perfect 10 anyway
       
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  3. Riskykristi1

    Riskykristi1 Porn Star

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    Ok. Whatever you say. Good luck to you.
     
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  4. CFH3ll

    CFH3ll OMERTA'

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    Closed mouth don't get fed...
     
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  5. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    I am not sure this is helpful as it implies that more women fall into the don't fuck category which is not so and the fuck category has lots and lots of interesting sub-divisions!;)

    Thinskin
     
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  6. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Actually that's the whole point, even if you do want to fuck them, you gotta convince yourself you don't lmao force your brain to put them into that category and it'll help take the nerves away. Mind over matter in this case lol
     
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