I had my first m-m experience about 35 years ago, before I ever touched a girls tits. I was young, barely 18, and thought I would never find a girl to have any sexual experiences with. I had stolen some of my older brother's Hustler magazines, and found myself attracted to the pictures of the women sucking the guy's cock, or the cock penetrating her pussy. At that point, I decided that I wanted to try sucking a cock since I didn't think I would ever get to touch a pussy, so I approached the same brother and asked him if I could try to suck his cock. He let me try, and when I did such a lousy job, he took pity on me, and laid me on his bed and proceeded to give me an expert blowjob. He swallowed my whole hard cock, and at the time I didn't realize it, but he made me cum and he swallowed my full load too. A couple years later, I met the girl that would eventually become my wife while we were in college. She was dating a classmate of mine, and by the time she dumped him, she had become fairly close to me (as I was always around and always treated her well since she was my "friend's" girlfriend). He had done some minor mental abuse and sexual abuse on her, so after she dumped him, she felt the only way she could keep me as a friend would be to have sex with me. That opened a floodgate and we had lots of sex for the next 4 years, then we got married. We've now been married almost 30 years, and the sex has died down from 10-15 times a week to less than that in an entire year. I have explained to her that I still have essentially the same sex drive that I had when we were dating, and that for the last several years, I have been contemplating finding a guy to suck cocks with, and to possibly experiment with receiving and possibly giving anal sex with. I have also expressed to her that I have a desire for her to invite several of her women friends over and to have me put an a show masturbating for them. Oddly enough, she seems more willing to let me suck a guys cock, or get sucked off by another guy than for me to receive or give anal sex with another man, or for me to masturbate for a [small] group of women. I have promised myself and my wife that I will not do anything with another man unless my wife gives her approval, and preferably is present so she knows exactly what happens. She surprised me by how easily she accepted me licking my own cum from her pussy, and how much she looks forward to me doing it a lot more, so maybe she will surprise me some day by letting me suck a cock, or masturbate for some women...

 

I want to touch a cock maybe suck it if it feels right........
don't want to do any with a guy but play with his cock....
asked wife for a 3 way ''MMF'' but wife don't want to see it.....

 

I had been married 4o some years; during my early sixties I let my oldest (straight?) brother bareback me during 2 vacation trips to the Midwest, and I loved it so much I join a M4M dating site when I got home to meet men to get laid.

 

I don't really see how being faithfull would be any more difficult for bi guys than for straight guys. I'm a married bi guy. I have no difficulty staying faithfull to my wife. Neither with women or guys. Yeah, we had our difficulties back before marriage, and our relationship started with her being "the other woman". She knows I'm bi, but she also knows that she is my everything. So I have no struggle as I don't really have any incentive to desire other people

 

Damn I got a 11" dick y'all can suck

 

I would love to suck ir

 

MY hubby is bi, but he does not struggle at all to stay /remain faithful .....why you ask ? because WE ARE BOTH HONEST . I love watching and helping him suck cock . If A WIFE truly loves her husband , SHE will do what it takes (with trust and lust ) to please her man sexually . Fufilling fantasies together because not only is it a thrill , it truly builds a unbreakable bond like no other between lovers . I understand the fear bi men have , LET IT GO. FREE YOURSELVES to your lover. Weather she agrees or not, if she loves you. She will eventually want to enjoy the journey with you . Most marriages are built with lies, hidden secrets , infidelity , because one person is not completely themselves . SACRIFICE can be made, but not being true to yourself and your wife, you will always feel guilt *from the lies* betrayl , and in the end, you'll regret the things you didn't do together . NOT the things you did to hide your sexual desires .. It's shameful that I've met many, many couples that have messaged me over the years , asking for advise on how to tell their wife /hubby about their desires and fetishes .

 

I have been bi for several years.

 

Wow that was a very nice post. We both enjoyed reading your story.
Thank you.

 

i've been with my gf for a few years and it's good but starting to get the itch of some man play. i had done that inbetween this gf. just some bj's that's it.no anal. the gf doesent know about this side of me.

 

I agree it comes down to communication I don't think I need to say it should be honest. Both my wife and I are on our second marriage and I have thought that with the divorce rate what it is somewhere around fifty percent last I heard. It might do everybody some good to just go ahead and get married anyway. But go into it knowing that it could end for what ever reason. Each take back everything they brought into the relationship. I know this is not the fix all but when I married my current wife I told myself and her that I wanted to start fresh no lying no holding back and our pact is if one of us feel like going stray we have to give the mate a chance to fix it. After all it is they who are doing or not doing something to make us think about going stray. I know kids make this harder but if you could go through a dry run of marriage before kids all the better.
After all marriage because of kids is problematic from the start. What I am trying to say is we need less drama in our lives. Drama that transcends to the work place or school for both adults and kids. Drama that sometimes ends tragically and with violence. Sorry for the ramble. We will celebrate twenty six years this june

 

Been married all my life, now I'm not, just left with curiosity

 

I use to have a friend that wanted to suck me every chance he could i lost contac with him but your right sometimes a person has that friend that they do private things with find a new friend or find him

 

just broke up with gf. cant wait to suck a cock again

 

Man I couldn’t agree more. That’s what keeps me from following through with an encounter. You just never know with people who you don’t know.

 

Ive been married for 39 years and about 20 years ago i had a fuckbuddy but the past year i want another one so bad ive been trying to hook up to suck a dick but no luck have to be so discrete my wife also has lost her sexual drive

 

Yes I’m always so horny for some cock in me

 

I don’t want to fall I’m love with a guy. Don’t want to kiss any guy. Just want to play with a huge cock and give him a killer hand job for starters.

 

Exactly jacking off with others is fun

 

X2 on that