wow!

I really like your stories!! I'm so jealous that you're able to go out as a woman.

 

Don't be jealous--you can do it, too. It takes some work, but it's so-o-o-o-o worth it!

 

I like your stories too... I just saw a girl in an office today wearing platform pumps and a halter. I was wondering "is there anything 'special' she is hiding?"

 

I have two reactions to that:
1. I'm so glad you (and the other guys) like hearing about my life. As I become more comfortable as a woman, I find I really am thinking like the "sissy bois" in boylvr's thread--making men happy just may be my purpose in life.
2. I still have some work to do if your response to a sexy girl is to wonder IF she is hiding something special. You're halfway there, but my work won't be done until your reaction is "I hope there's something special she is hiding."

 

Tips from NEW

So it's been a while since I gave any tips, but with the new "hunting season" opening soon since the warm weather is finally returning to the Northern Hemisphere. I thought now would be a good time to start giving them again.

Back Story- For those of you who don't know why I am such a supporter of Suzy.... One of my good friends has in the past few years gone from John to Janet. I have given both Suzy and Janet lots of tips from a biological woman (like that term? :lol about everything from eyebrow shaping to wear to buy larger sized shoes to how to walk.

My biggest reason for helping is not only because they are my friends, but going through this process at times is very isolating. Talking to friends can be very daunting. So I try to be as helpful and open without pushing too much, although sometimes I fail at that.

Today's lesson- hair removal

I have tried every razor, shaving cream, waxing, and depilatory creams (Nair, Veet) on the market.

Waxing- I hated waxing, much too painful and I thought it made the pores look like I had the measles with lots of tiny red dots all over my legs, I won't even try to describe what waxing my arm pits was like. Suffice it to say... OUCH! If you want to go through the pain though, your hair will grow back the slowest with this method.

Razors and Shaving creams- These work just fine, but the hair grows back the fastest. Personally, I prefer the razor/ cream in one products like "intuition". It looks like a razor inside a bar of soap, but that "soap" allows you to just shave and rinse without needing any additional creams.

Depilatory Creams- These creams work by breaking down the hair so it can be scraped away at the follicle. You slather it all over your legs, arm pits, bikini line, wait 5 minutes then scrape off the cream and the hair. It is painless and the whole process takes 15 minutes. Although the hair isn't pulled out so it does grow back faster than waxing. I think it grows slower than regular shaving. ((This is what I use. If someone wants additional tips on best practices with these products, PM me.))

I hope this helps and if you want to PM me with any questions, go ahead. I will try to be as honest and open as I can.

Good luck ladies!

NEW

 

Oh, id want you to see it. Just not everyone else out in public.

 

Thanks, NEW. All tips are gratefully accepted. While I admit I enjoy the men's encouragement, it's nice to hear from someone who isn't trying to get into my panties.

 

You know, every time I go out, I come home, I feel a wave of shame and swear I'm never going to do it again. It would be a lot easier to just give up and go back to being a full-time man. Then time passes and Suzy gets all worked up again and letting her have some fun is all I can think about. The next thing I know, I'm putting on my makeup and wondering which skirt I should wear. I'm starting to understand that life as a CD is all about facing challenges and being brave enough to push through them. It took me forever to go out in public that first time, and when I did, I was shocked both at how much I loved it and at how well I seemed to pass as a woman. It seems like every time I go out, I have to learn that lesson all over again--I guess all those years as a man still have me doubting my ability to be a woman, no matter how much positive reinforcement I get. When I "fail" (like being ignored when I'm trying so hard to be noticed), it hurts and makes me doubt myself. So, I'm glad I decided to confront the clerk on the last trip and discover he wasn't ignoring me because he suspected anything or because he was repulsed by me, but only because that's what he was "supposed to" do. Now that I know that, it actually makes it easier to go back there again. If I get a new clerk who ignores me, I know why, and overcoming his boss's rules is just one more challenge to be faced, so all I have to do is be brave enough to keep trying. I refuse to give in to fear (thanks in large part to people like NEW who have encouraged me so much). So, the answer to your question is: Yes, I will go back, again and again, if I have to, and yes, I will accept the challenge of convincing someone to ignore the rules. As for being prepared for what comes next? I honestly don't know if I am, but I do know that I won't let fear stop me from experiencing it.

Sorry if you were looking for more of a "fantasy" response than a reality check, but being honest about who I am is sort of what this thread is about, right?

 

Hmmmm, we're going to need to work on that bashfulness. I don't have time to waste on men who are ashamed of how I affect them. I want a guy who's proud of what I do to him--I can't think of anything more exciting than walking through a mall in one of my minis with a guy who has a noticeable erection and who is either holding my hand or has his hand firmly planted on my ass. I can just imagine everyone looking at us and thinking about what was going to happen after we finish shopping!

 

I can't believe it's been almost 3 months since I've had a chance to go out! It seems like any time I get a day off from work, I get trapped in some family activity. Of course, that may be a good thing: after all the time I've spent in the Sissy Boi thread, I'm not sure I'll be able to control myself the next time my female side takes over. Those pictures make it all look so easy to just surrender to the urges!

 

Awesome

It is a dream to take a gurl out on a date......it brings much joy to spend time making out in the back seat......and if the gurl knows how to be a gurl........oh my......nothing like it

 

sure honey, go into a regular bar and sit in a dark booth and sip a drink and see if any guy approaches you

 

Hmmm, 2 1/2 years later you revive this from thread purgatory and that's the best suggestion you've got?

 

So I just read your thread from beginning to end and I must say u gave me one of the hardest erections I've had in a while thanks now its time to bust a nut❤❤

 

Always nice to hear from a new admirer. :blush:

Now you've got me looking forward to a break in the winter weather so I can add a new adventure or two to the thread!

 

Fingers crossed that u adventure your beautiful ass to Cali

 

Nothing is stopping you from throwing in a skirt, some leggings, and snow boots then seeing who stares at your ass....

 

It's hard enough to find open-toe shoes I can squeeze into. There's little or no chance I can find women's boots that fit.

 

Just a little advance warning for all you sissy fans. It's been way too long since I let Suzy out to have some fun. I'm thinking I'm going to need to do it this week before I burst from frustration, snow or no snow! Of course, that probably means we'll get 2 feet of the stuff to kill my plans. If so, I might have to settle for finding someone to abuse me online, so stay alert!