Wow, this thread just reeks of mental retardation. Back to anonymity I go...

 

Fairly common phenomeona with this original poster.

 

snoochies, please dont hate me for saying this, but i have to back Beatitupright for something, and in no way shape or form is this directed at Snoochies. when i say "you" in this post, its referring to the forum....and this is off the subject of the thread. i just want to point out first that Beat is a city kid. he acts like what he grew up with. experiences, friends, the way your family brings you up. this is the way city kids are. the things he says may not make sense to you because you've never experienced anything like it, otherwise you'd be able to relate. there's a lot of diversity on this forum, don't hate on him because he's ghetto. that was one of the first things he said on here. that he likes this forum because of the diversity.

when a chick sleeps with a guy that she just met, she just showed him how little it takes her to spread her legs. if she sleeps with him and one of his friends, she's showing him how easily she'll sleep around. what type of girl would sleep with a guy and his friend that she just met? thats definately not the way i would prove how much i liked a guy. guys don't take that as "hey i like you". guys take that as "hey, i'll fuck you." maybe its where i grew up that i recognise the way this guy talks and his views. i have brothers that are like this. if a girl stays loyal, doesnt put out right away, they want to be with her. if the girl seems easy, puts out on the first date, they dont really have too much respect for her. and theres nothing really left to pursue. when a girl sleeps with a guy right away, and also sleeps with him, his friends, and family members, she's just crossed over from "classy" to "slutty". i agree with him. beatitupright might not be saying everything in the correct words, but this is what he means.

men aren't going to remember the girl him and his friends ran train with. and if they do, ten to one its "yeah she was this slut me and my boys ran trizzz with, you want her number?" he's going to remember the girl that was loyal to him. some guys may be able to respect a girl that puts out easily. but most don't. and they become a "whore" in their mind.

 

THANK YOU!!! If this wasn't the internet I'd kiss you. Thats what I've been saying since I got on this thing .
:rose: For you Nikki

 

babe, very well put. Very well put indeed.
Even I was a bit confused in the way he thought, but I didn't hate on him. But you just put in into perspective for me...thank you, dear Slave.

 

i hope other people feel the same way... and no problem Beatitupright. =]

 

Feanaur I see why you like this girl. Good pick bro. Nikki I might have to find a way to put that in my sig.

 

maybe you should try a phone in forum instead

 

you can always just link it to this page, thats one way to do it. And yes, I am very lucky to have her, she is an awesome chick.
Man, I hope you know, I don't like the whole "gangster" thing...but I have nothing against you. People say you are rude, and a dumbass...well, to me, you have shown nothing but respect. Maybe you are not the best spoken,. but you have always been as kind to me as you know how to show.
Sir, I do so respect you...no matter what the forum thinks, I think you're a good guy.

 

Rude- Yeah I can be rude at times
Dumb-ass - Thats preposterous!!! lol lol

 

okay I'm not even gonna touch the whole bitches and hoes thing because even though most guys talk like that about girls to each other, it's pointless as hell even attempting to argue that it's right or whatever.

About the actual reason for this thread, I understand that you can't really walk away cus the guy called you out and if you do, you're a bitch, I've been in situations like that too. Thing is though, you did fight the guy and you have to own up to it and accept the consequences like a man. Whether you had no choice but to fight or not doesn't matter, you still did what you did and there isn't an excuse for it, no matter what the situation. It's easier said than done but you fucked up so you gotta accept whatever punishment you get, not make excuses, do your time, and learn from it. And next time if you're gonna do somethhing dumb or that's going to get you thrown in jail, do it where you won't get caught.

 

I don't think it's the way he talked that was perceived as stupid, it's the way he acted. You're a man from the ghetto, you've been saying that the entire time you've been on here, yet you choose to wear pink? You know for a fact that wearing pink around people that are hostile to you is just going to get you picked on. You know for a FACT that wearing pink in the ghetto is one of the most ass backwards ideas. You were practically asking for that fight. Personally, I don't mind pink, but you're talking about how the ladies love it on you doesn't reaffirm the fact that it's a manly color in any way.

Yet, you decide to persist and post it on an internet forum like you're some type of bad ass. Nikki can come and defend the way you talk but she can't defend the way you act, growing up in the ghetto may shape you to be a tough person but it doesn't make you swing your fist or choke someone, you do that. You need some help mentally if you're not secure enough in your masculinity to accept the fact that someone might call you gay. But from the sure absurdity of the matter look at the facts, the man called you gay when you have a girlfriend, how far exactly could he take those statements? Not very far.

It's time for you to grow up, man up, or get the fuck out of where you are and go somewhere that you can wear pink.

 

Ok. I have to disagree. Think about it. It's not like they were a "couple". They were out on a date (one of very few). It's not like she cheated on him or anything. And the way Beat talks it doesn't sound like he was very attached to begin with.

Second, turn the tables. If Beat had gone to the same party and screwed a girl and her friend (or sister for that matter)...even SIMULTANEOUSLY no one would be calling him anything but "the man".

So I have to call bullshit on that. "She's showing how easily she'll spread her legs"??? Bullshit. Maybe she was just looking for a fuck. Maybe she just wanted a one night stand. You've never gone out (especially during your college years) planning on having some anonymous fuck? Or feeling like your in the mood to get more than one guy? I know plenty of girls who have set out with that exact goal (and achieved it).

And "she's showing how easily she'll sleep around"???? Bullshit again. This girl barely knew Beat and therefore had no loyalty to him. It's not as if they were monogomous in any way. And I guarantee you Beat would sleep around on any girl who he didn't consider his GF. So it's just a bullshit double standard. You can defend him all you want. Doesn't mean he's right.

And even if she did do all these things it still doesn't give him the right to call her a "hoe". No woman deserves to be called that. Just like no one deserves to be called "N*gger" or "Sp*c".

 

BTW, Beat, when did this supposed hate crime take place? Just curious how long the Denver judicial system takes to do it's job.

 

hmm.. yeah, i tried. i guess you really had to grow up around a guy like him to fully understand what i was talking about.

i was trying to get everyone to understand the male logic on why they consider some girls sluts and whores. it's simple, you want respect, act like a lady. you want a quick fuck, act like a slut. either way, your getting what you asked for. you can battle this until you turn blue. but sometimes the truth hurts. this is HIS view, along with more than half the population. everyone is going to have an opinion.

and snoochies, after you had your one night stands, or your friends had their 3somes, what exactly do you think the guys were saying the next day? "i want to be with them? i really scored me a winner?" no, they either didnt think anything of it at all, or they thought you were easy. i know you didnt care what they thought (otherwise you wouldnt of done it) but thats the way a guy is going to think. if a guy wines and dines ya, treats you like a queen, says what you want to hear, gets you to sleep with him. ive got news for you- its called "spittin game". woman do it too. only we dont think anything bad of the guys that sleep with us right away. thats the difference between male and females.


i think this is a lost cause though...your not going to understand this, because i honestly dont think you've been exposed to it. everyone is different, no one has ANY right to pick apart someone. i was just trying to get people to understand why he thinks like he does, and that in no way shape or form is he alone. hes just the only one on this forum.

 

and snoochies, i also stated that that was the way city kids thought. i didnt say the whole population. i was raised in a city, none of what he has said since he got on here has shocked me. what shocked me was the fact that so many ppl had never heard anyone say things like that b4.

 

Okay, just for the whole bitches and hoes thing....here goes...
In englad, to say, "Imma put butter on my bisquits" means "I am going to but butter on my cookies"
So, what I am saying is, in the Ghetto, being called a hoe, or a bitch, is not nessacerially a bad thing, so much as a title....same as in the south "Dame" means a girl, but in cali, girls get offended when you call them that.
Well, words are not meant to be taken to their exact literal meaning, cause Amerika has so many different dialect. So, if your gonna beat this guy up [I do see the pun in that, btw], then do it because he got caught, or because he didn't just walk away [which I understand in his heart, that was not an option]....Hell, even I call women bitches, when in a "ganster" mood, after listing to some Insane Clown Posse or some such band....
I thank you all for your tym,e

 

I just wanna say that I agree with the pink shirt comment

 

Snoochies, according to the above post, this supposedly started "a little over a month" ago.

It's one thing to think the way he does, which I'm sorry to say, shows no common sense or respect whatsoever. It certainly doesn't give him any excuse to lash out against someone for insinuating, in the heat of an argument, that he might be gay and nearly kill them and then try to weasel out of the jail time!! I'm sorry but he deserves whatever punishment is ordered by the judge. And if he gets off scott-free, then an injustice has occurred. He’s probably lucky I won’t be one of his jurors; it's time people started accepting the consequences for their actions.

baller16, I agree with your post except for the piece above; he DID have a choice and he made a poor one ............ and now he wants us to believe it’s anyone else’s fault except his!! I don’t buy that.

 

how on earth do you expect to get anybody to understand him when he does'nt understand himself , how can you defend his arrogant attitude to life, his disgusting attitude to women. his total disregard for anybody who does not agree with him. he is a failure until he learns how to adapt to life outside the ghetto, and he shows absolutely no remorse for a criminal act . i am 100% behind snoochies in everything she has said about this kid . you have tried to explain to snoochies what is going on but you have'nt said she is wrong, why? because she is'nt wrong. the law will now act on behalf of the majority of the decent citizens of the u.s.a.